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Hi there,
new to these forums but was wondering if any of you could help...
I have had my cat Theo for about 2 years now. I rescued him from a stray cat centre after he had been found in an old lady's garden. I say I rescued him, but actually he chose me by bashing me across the head as i walked past his cage. I fell in love with him. When i first got him home he was a nightmare, very aggressive with me. For the next 6 months, it wasn't unusual for people to ask if i was self harming as the cuts to my arms were so severe from where he would just eye me up from across the room and then pounce.
Fortunately, over the last 18 months or so we have settled with each other very nicely. Apart from a week where he went off on a disappearing act. I was frantic. Otherwise, he's lovely, and although high spirited, self opinionated (V.vocal!), very loving now. i should probably mention that we live together alone, just the two of us.
recently i have been thinking about an addition for our little family though, and have thought about getting another cat. However, my mum, who has 6 cats (!) has warned that it might completely ruin his now nice personality, and make him sulky and mean spirited towards me and the new cat.
I was wondering what your advice might be? do you think it would work with a cat as egotistical as this one? He basically runs the house, and at times its like i'm his lodger!! If you think that he may benefit from a new cat, do you think it would be wise to get a kitten or a young cat? Any advice would be such help and i'm completely torn, but don't want to ruin the bond that Theo and i have worked so hard to get between us!!
Thanks in advance!
I have had my cat Theo for about 2 years now. I rescued him from a stray cat centre after he had been found in an old lady's garden. I say I rescued him, but actually he chose me by bashing me across the head as i walked past his cage. I fell in love with him. When i first got him home he was a nightmare, very aggressive with me. For the next 6 months, it wasn't unusual for people to ask if i was self harming as the cuts to my arms were so severe from where he would just eye me up from across the room and then pounce.
Fortunately, over the last 18 months or so we have settled with each other very nicely. Apart from a week where he went off on a disappearing act. I was frantic. Otherwise, he's lovely, and although high spirited, self opinionated (V.vocal!), very loving now. i should probably mention that we live together alone, just the two of us.
recently i have been thinking about an addition for our little family though, and have thought about getting another cat. However, my mum, who has 6 cats (!) has warned that it might completely ruin his now nice personality, and make him sulky and mean spirited towards me and the new cat.
I was wondering what your advice might be? do you think it would work with a cat as egotistical as this one? He basically runs the house, and at times its like i'm his lodger!! If you think that he may benefit from a new cat, do you think it would be wise to get a kitten or a young cat? Any advice would be such help and i'm completely torn, but don't want to ruin the bond that Theo and i have worked so hard to get between us!!
Thanks in advance!