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sending vibes and good thoughts to you and your family....
 

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How terrible for you and your family!, my prayers are with you
 

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Cindy,

Like many others here, I am truly sorry for this. I know this is very difficult for you right now. I'll keep you, his parents and of course, him in my prayers.
I am here if you need someone to talk to at any time of the day. Love you.
 

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Oh goodness Cindy!

What a senseless tragedy for your family to endure
. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now
. Sending some strength vibes y'alls way {{{{{}}}}
 

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Cindy, that's just awful! There are no words to take away the hurt, so I won't try to find them. Just know I'm thinking of you and your cousin and your family, and praying for peace for all of you.
 

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Oh my goodness that is horrible. I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. Suicide is one of the hardest ways to lose someone. It's very difficult to deal with. My thoughts are with you.
 
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Thanks, all of you, my friends.......am only hoping and praying that I am not asked to sing at the funeral.......honestly, I'm not sure that I can.....
 

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This is one of the most painful things that can happen to a family. I'm sending prayers to God asking him to give strength to you and your cousin's parents and to console your grief.
 

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Oh sweetheart I'm so sorry to hear this.
I lost a dear friend to suicide ten years ago... will be 11 years on November 14th... and nobody saw it coming. Nobody understood it, and nobody was left untouched, all wondering what we could have done the night before just to stop it from happening. For the last five years, I've been the only person I know who has still gone to where he fell to lay a rose on the 14th Nov, and sing for him.

All I can do is offer a shoulder, a prayer and all the love in the world for you and your family. I hope that with all of us together, it might be enough to see you through for a while.
 

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I've only just seen this thread, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know the death of a family member is an awful thing, and it must be much worse when it was due to suicide. There will always be unanswered questions, but you musn't blame yourself or depress yourself by wondering if you could have stopped him. When someone reaches such a low point in their life, it's doubtful anyone could have helped. Your family will be in my thoughts
 
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