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KittenKrazy

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Hey guys, could use some vibes this morning. I hadn't been up even five minutes this morning when my phone rang. It was my mom telling me that one of my favorite first cousions had hanged himself last night! Not dealing with it really well right now guys...just sitting here in a puddle of tears and confusion..not a good thing! So, if you don't mind, say a prayer, or send vibes...not just for me, but for his mom and dad.....they're special to me!
 

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sending vibes and hugs.

I know what grief you are going through.
back in 1996 my cousin was 19 and he got shot by the mafia, i know its not the same category. But the grief ..to not be able to understand and prevent things earlier is always there.
 

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Cindy,

My prayers are with you and your cousin's family. It's so tragic.
 

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I am so very sorry...I too lost a first cousin to suicide, many years ago. It is a horrible loss
 

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Oh Cindy, I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts as are his mum and dad!

 
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Thanks, my friends....can always count on TCS to be here! I'm on my way to church this morning, gonna be a tough morning, that's for sure!
 

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Sorry to hear this, it's not the best circumstances for you I know. Please take care and I will be thinking of you and your family
 

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Oh Cindy, I am so sorry to hear this
Sending vibes your way.
I know I don't have the words to take the pain away but know that you and your family will be in my thoughts.
 

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Oh Cindy, how awful. *hugs* My husband lost his mother to suicide a few years back. I know how confusing, frustrating, and devastating it is when someone takes their own life. I'll be praying for you and your family.
 

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Sending lots of vibes and love for you and his family! My cousin killed herself when I was little. I didn't know her that well, but I have a few fond memories of her.
I remember seeing her family completely broken, blaming their selves, and with such heartache that'll I'll never forget.

I hope everyone who knew him finds peace soon.
 

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Oh Cindy, how awful........I had a grandfather who did the same thing when I was 16. He was in poor health, elderly, and felt he had nothing to live for......how I wish we could talk to those people one time before they give up and make them see that no matter how dark life gets, the sun will come back out eventually. My heart and thoughts are with you and your family!
Love ya girl!
 

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Cindy...What a terrible loss...I am so sorry.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My husband's cousin shot himself several years ago, and the holidays are still hard for him and his family.
 
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