i am so sorry you have to go through this, having relationship problems is bad enough when you have family and friends around, you might not have that but you do have everyone here at TCS
i was with a man once who i loved completely, he was lovely at first but then he started to change, he would say 'don't call me, when i want to talk or see you i'll call you' and he would never take me anywhere except to his parents or for a drive to get something to eat.
i knew he wasn't treating me very well, i was sure that if he loved me he would want me to call him and would want to see me all the time but i was so in love with him that i let him get away with it.
he was controlling too but for me that wasn't the problem, the problem was that he wasn't giving as much as i was in the relationship, i felt i was trying yet he seemed to treat me like something he could talk to or see whenever HE wanted and i had to take it or he might leave.
eventually he did leave me and i have never felt such pain before, i really did feel as if my heart was broken, i couldn't eat or sleep, i couldn't stop thinking about him and i must have cried for at least two weeks....it was very hard but i did get through it and now i have an amazing husband who really does love me
he has tried to get back into my life since, says he made a huge mistake and would love to come home to me after work cooking a lovely dinner and bringing him a drink because that's what he wants but i have nothing left for him anymore and haven't since he broke my heart five years ago, plus, i have the most amazing man who i love with everything i have.
i never thought i'd get over Antonio but i did and i found someone who really loves me, it will happen for you, it's hard to believe when you have been hurt so badly i know but please stay strong...he is not worth it.
you are a lovely, friendly girl and you deserve so much better
|He told me that every man cheats, and that every woman cheats and i told him, that its not so. If you truly love someone and keep your relationship satisfied then why would you get bored?
not every man cheats and certainly not every woman either, if a man says that to you, the only thing he's trying to do is make you accept the fact that he cheats.
if two people truly love one another then they don't cheat, i would never cheat on my husband and i know he would never cheat on me, this guy sounds like a jerk and i truly hope you find someone who deserves you because this guy certainly doesn't.
you will be in my thoughts and prayers, goodluck and stay strong okay