Hey dont wry he will show ....but good luck...have fun
keep us posted k.
ttys
keep us posted k.
ttys
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I know most of you may think this is a really dumb topic
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Do you really think he'll show because I'm really starting to get worried now..
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*sighs* I had a feeling this was gonna happen...4:00pm.....still no show..
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True but it still hurts..
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He never did end up showing up. This really hurts because I was really looking forward to it.
I'm guessing he just forgot I certainly do hope that he's not doing this on purpose.
I am sure something came up and he will have a good explanation!Originally Posted by Lil_Axl_Gurl
He never did end up showing up. This really hurts because I was really looking forward to it.I'm guessing he just forgot I certainly do hope that he's not doing this on purpose.
If not, then the heck with him. If he is the type of guy who would intentionally stand you up then you never would want to get a relationship started in the first place, trust me.
Quick question... did you guys have a time set and everything? In your first post you mentioned that he might pick you up today... Just wondering, because maybe he had something to do that he forgot about when you talked with him at the mall, like helping his parents with something perhaps.
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Well I asked him if I should expect him at noon and he said yes. He can't use his parents as an excuse here because they don't even live in the same state. He moved here from Florida. I don't know what happened I'm just worried because I've been stood up like this MANY times. But something keeps telling me that something came up and he didn't do this on purpose. I'm just so confused I don't know what to think!!Originally Posted by squirtle
I am sure something came up and he will have a good explanation!
If not, then the heck with him. If he is the type of guy who would intentionally stand you up then you never would want to get a relationship started in the first place, trust me.
Quick question... did you guys have a time set and everything? In your first post you mentioned that he might pick you up today... Just wondering, because maybe he had something to do that he forgot about when you talked with him at the mall, like helping his parents with something perhaps.
AWWWWWW LAG that sucks! I hope he calls you soon and kisses some serious butt !!!!
Sounds splendid but I can tell you as you get older such as in your 30's and 40's its much harder to find a man so if you want a husband get it before you turn 25 as it will be mostly impossible after that. I didn't get one as I had some bad times with guys in my teens and 20's so it didn't happen to me but I'm just giving all of you younger ladies so advise. Personally, I'm not keen on getting married or having kids. Just not my bag I guess. My Taffy is my baby to care for. I'm happy about that.
I wouldn't call him if he never showed. If he's anxious to see you he will call if not, then move on as he's not worth it if he hurts you.
I wouldn't call him if he never showed. If he's anxious to see you he will call if not, then move on as he's not worth it if he hurts you.
You said you had his phone # and e-mail, did he have your info? Is it like here, where if you are online, he can't call?
Either way, I am very proud of you for initiating contact with someone you find to have potential. I hope things work out. If not, I am sorry.
The weekend before I met dh, I met another guy and gave him my # and everything. He never called. Now I'm very glad! I know you are years away from thinking of a dh, but it can be true for bf too!
Either way, I am very proud of you for initiating contact with someone you find to have potential. I hope things work out. If not, I am sorry.
The weekend before I met dh, I met another guy and gave him my # and everything. He never called. Now I'm very glad! I know you are years away from thinking of a dh, but it can be true for bf too!
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Yeah he has my info and it's my cellphone number so it wouldn't effect anything. He gave me his myspace account too and I see that he was online already because he added me.Originally Posted by Beckiboo
You said you had his phone # and e-mail, did he have your info? Is it like here, where if you are online, he can't call?
Either way, I am very proud of you for initiating contact with someone you find to have potential. I hope things work out. If not, I am sorry.
The weekend before I met dh, I met another guy and gave him my # and everything. He never called. Now I'm very glad! I know you are years away from thinking of a dh, but it can be true for bf too!
What!!!
I so disagree with this. I honestly believe finding a husband in your 20s is not a very good idea (at least for me). I am totally coming in to who I am in my 30s finally, and know exactly what I want and how I want it. The guys I would have picked for husbands in my 20s, well, lets just say I would be divorced by now.
Anyways, to the original poster. Forget this guy, no matter what his excuse is. Unless something horrible or traumatic like an accident happened, there is no excuse for not showing or not calling. And if he just "forgot" that is even worse. Guys do these things because they know most of the time they can get away with them. Don't let him get away with it. Just my 2 cents. Sorry it didn't work out, but there will be someone better just around the corner hunny!!
I have always had a very strict rule with myself that any guy that didn't call/didn't show when he said he was going to, gets the boot! Chances are, he didn't stand you up to be mean, he's just, well, a teenage boy, and is therefore about 80% hormones, 10% video games and 10% pure stupidity.
I have PLENTY of stories of stupid crap guys I was dating in high school did, and once they stood me up or didn't call I would just call them and say:
"You know, its a shame you screwed up so bad, because I really liked you, but I have high standards for myself for how I treat people and how I, in return, wish to be treated, and you're just not cutting it!"
Then, I would eat a pint of Ben and Jerry's, cry a little, and move on!
I know it seems like he's the cutest, most fabulous guy in the world...but, cute guys are a dime a dozen: GOOD guys are harder to find.
You're so young, and obviously such a special girl. Don't let this guy make you crazy!
I have PLENTY of stories of stupid crap guys I was dating in high school did, and once they stood me up or didn't call I would just call them and say:
"You know, its a shame you screwed up so bad, because I really liked you, but I have high standards for myself for how I treat people and how I, in return, wish to be treated, and you're just not cutting it!"
Then, I would eat a pint of Ben and Jerry's, cry a little, and move on!
I know it seems like he's the cutest, most fabulous guy in the world...but, cute guys are a dime a dozen: GOOD guys are harder to find.
You're so young, and obviously such a special girl. Don't let this guy make you crazy!
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Half of me wants to forgive him and keep him...the other half wants to scream at him..flip him off..then walk away.
NO!!!! Forgive him for what? Making you wait ALL DAY for little old HIM? You got all excited, wasted your day, for what? So he could "forget"? Not acceptable. It's very disrespectful and sign of things to come in the future.
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Well anything could've come up like I've forgotten about my friends before because I was so stressed out about how jam packed my day is.
Ooh I don't know what to do..I just wish he had a phone so that I could call him and figure out what's going on!!
It is 2:30 the following day... if it was a mistake he should have at least contacted you by now to beg for forgiveness
I say to heck with him and find yourself a new guy
Your a cute girl it won't be hard.... But you can't do it sitting around fretting over him and why he didn't call
I say to heck with him and find yourself a new guy
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How can he call though..he has no phone..Originally Posted by squirtle
It is 2:30 the following day... if it was a mistake he should have at least contacted you by now to beg for forgiveness
I say to heck with him and find yourself a new guyYour a cute girl it won't be hard.... But you can't do it sitting around fretting over him and why he didn't call
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