A few weeks ago I posted - "fighting cats" - and things are BAD.
We've had our cats for six years. They were adopted together, always got along, and were oh so very sweet.
The male was neutered, the female was not spayed.
Suddenly, she started viciously attacking him.
I followed everyone's advice. I took them both to the vet, they checked out fine and had her spayed three weeks ago.
The nightmare continues.
I have kept them separate, trying reintroduction, but it is going awfully.
She seems deathly afraid of him. He is also afraid of her, and stays up on top of the cabinets whenever she comes out. He never fights back, even when she bolts from the room and goes after him.
I'm REALLY trying to be patient. I love these guys with all my heart, but this is starting to seem hopeless.
I've tried Feliway diffusers and spray. I use Rescue Remedy. I bathed them both with the same shampoo. I've tried the towel rub.
What the Hell is going on?
Will they NEVER be the same to one another? Do they have no memory of each other and all those years?
My vet kees telling me to wait, that the hormones have probably not dissipated yet. Meanwhile, my poor male cat has lost his friend and goes around jumpy all the time.
Previously I asked for specific, concrete suggestions, rather than generalities.
I'm asking again...please.
Thank you.
Craig
We've had our cats for six years. They were adopted together, always got along, and were oh so very sweet.
The male was neutered, the female was not spayed.
Suddenly, she started viciously attacking him.
I followed everyone's advice. I took them both to the vet, they checked out fine and had her spayed three weeks ago.
The nightmare continues.
I have kept them separate, trying reintroduction, but it is going awfully.
She seems deathly afraid of him. He is also afraid of her, and stays up on top of the cabinets whenever she comes out. He never fights back, even when she bolts from the room and goes after him.
I'm REALLY trying to be patient. I love these guys with all my heart, but this is starting to seem hopeless.
I've tried Feliway diffusers and spray. I use Rescue Remedy. I bathed them both with the same shampoo. I've tried the towel rub.
What the Hell is going on?
Will they NEVER be the same to one another? Do they have no memory of each other and all those years?
My vet kees telling me to wait, that the hormones have probably not dissipated yet. Meanwhile, my poor male cat has lost his friend and goes around jumpy all the time.
Previously I asked for specific, concrete suggestions, rather than generalities.
I'm asking again...please.
Thank you.
Craig