We have had Ranger for a little over 2 years. He doesn't seem to respond to us the same way that Emmy and Samson do. Normally, when we put a hand out to either Emmy or Samson, they will come right over, maybe sniff our hand and then rub against it. With Ranger, he acts very afraid and nervous. He almost strikes me as being abused. However, we know he wasn't. We got him when he was about 5-6 weeks old from a family who had a "Free kittens to good home". We didn't notice any signs of abuse to him or any of the other cats in the home. Neither did our vet notice anything wrong with him.
He also doesn't respond well to playtime. I swear Emmy and Samson have supersonic hearing. You just pick up a string, and one of them is bound to show up to play. Ranger never does. If he happens to be in the room during playtime, he looks like he really wants to play, too, but when you take the toy over to him, he'll flinch, and if the toy lands on him.....he's gone!!
I have expressed numerous times to the vet about all this, and he seems to think that it's just Ranger's personality, and he reminds me that people can be "loners" by choice, too. So, I was thinking, can cats actually be shy??? Even after 2 years with 2 other cats, and an 8 year old boy, that are all very active??? Ranger will play with Samson, once in a while, but he even acts afraid then, like he's not sure if Samson is just playing or not. He seems fine in every other way....eats, sleeps, and poops, just like the other 2. Does anyone else have a "timid" kitty? Or have any suggestions?? I feel I have tried everything possible, and God knows that the only way I may "abuse" them is I spoil them rotten!!!
He also doesn't respond well to playtime. I swear Emmy and Samson have supersonic hearing. You just pick up a string, and one of them is bound to show up to play. Ranger never does. If he happens to be in the room during playtime, he looks like he really wants to play, too, but when you take the toy over to him, he'll flinch, and if the toy lands on him.....he's gone!!
I have expressed numerous times to the vet about all this, and he seems to think that it's just Ranger's personality, and he reminds me that people can be "loners" by choice, too. So, I was thinking, can cats actually be shy??? Even after 2 years with 2 other cats, and an 8 year old boy, that are all very active??? Ranger will play with Samson, once in a while, but he even acts afraid then, like he's not sure if Samson is just playing or not. He seems fine in every other way....eats, sleeps, and poops, just like the other 2. Does anyone else have a "timid" kitty? Or have any suggestions?? I feel I have tried everything possible, and God knows that the only way I may "abuse" them is I spoil them rotten!!!