this is completely unrelated to your gorgeous son, but . . .
Your name seems familiar from another source. Do you do mail art, or self-publish a zine, or write for small or independent press at all? That's the only thing I can think of where I might have seen your moniker but not remember exactly where.
Oh, and is it SPIKE a-duh-LIKE-a or Spike-uh de-LIKE-uh?