(Not positive what forum this should go under...)
Warning, this may be a little long.
At my adoption center/rescue group I've seen a few cases come up lately that make me wonder how we should go about adoptions:
#1 Woman whose children were taken away from her and given to her sister, then moves in with her sister because she can't support herself, gets to adopt kitten from one of our shelters because she filled the form out ok.
#2 Woman fills out form perfectly, but then smacks own child on the face in the middle of the store.
#3 Woman fills out form perfectly, but left children on their own all day, we know this because they were in our adoption center all day.
#4 Family fills out form fine, but children are yelling, crazy and out of control and they want a kitten.
To my knowledge they bent the rules a bit and rejected #2, 3 and 4 at my store. Personally my adoption center can be a bit picky, I wonder about #3 and #4, maybe they would have been OK homes.
Furthermore, I was talking with the staff there and we both wondered if not liking someone was a good enough reason to reject them. Off hand I'd honestly say no, even on this website there are a fair number of people who I probably wouldn't get along with, but who I know love and take care of their cats impeccably.
At the same time, in the case of #3 and #4, if they are that irresponsible with their kids...
At the same time (I am running in circles a bit) I live in a VERY high kill area, and maybe an adequate home where they are fed and loved is okay, even if they aren't treated as gently I want them to be, is still better than death.
What do you guys think? Does anyone live in a LOW kill area and know how picky shelters are there? Do you have to LIKE the people adopting the cats? What should be requirements for adoptions?
Just looking for thoughts, not experts.
Warning, this may be a little long.
At my adoption center/rescue group I've seen a few cases come up lately that make me wonder how we should go about adoptions:
#1 Woman whose children were taken away from her and given to her sister, then moves in with her sister because she can't support herself, gets to adopt kitten from one of our shelters because she filled the form out ok.
#2 Woman fills out form perfectly, but then smacks own child on the face in the middle of the store.
#3 Woman fills out form perfectly, but left children on their own all day, we know this because they were in our adoption center all day.
#4 Family fills out form fine, but children are yelling, crazy and out of control and they want a kitten.
To my knowledge they bent the rules a bit and rejected #2, 3 and 4 at my store. Personally my adoption center can be a bit picky, I wonder about #3 and #4, maybe they would have been OK homes.
Furthermore, I was talking with the staff there and we both wondered if not liking someone was a good enough reason to reject them. Off hand I'd honestly say no, even on this website there are a fair number of people who I probably wouldn't get along with, but who I know love and take care of their cats impeccably.
At the same time, in the case of #3 and #4, if they are that irresponsible with their kids...
At the same time (I am running in circles a bit) I live in a VERY high kill area, and maybe an adequate home where they are fed and loved is okay, even if they aren't treated as gently I want them to be, is still better than death.
What do you guys think? Does anyone live in a LOW kill area and know how picky shelters are there? Do you have to LIKE the people adopting the cats? What should be requirements for adoptions?
Just looking for thoughts, not experts.