I am pretty sure that Ozzy (our 11-month-old kitten) misbehaves on purpose to get my attention, and I am surprised it took me this long to figure out.
He will climb on Shawn's desk and mess around in the papers, then if I don't notice, he starts meowing loudly. I could never figure out what he was doing, as this behavior seems pointless and always gets him in trouble. Then, a few weeks ago, I realized that that IS the point. Just like with a little kid, negative attention is better than no attention. (He does this a lot when I am working from home.) This is the same cat who, if he decides he wants to be held, will jump into your arms without warning, whether you are sitting or standing.
Any ideas on how to break this behavior? Can I maybe forestall it by giving him "attention breaks" before he asks for them on the days I work from home?
He will climb on Shawn's desk and mess around in the papers, then if I don't notice, he starts meowing loudly. I could never figure out what he was doing, as this behavior seems pointless and always gets him in trouble. Then, a few weeks ago, I realized that that IS the point. Just like with a little kid, negative attention is better than no attention. (He does this a lot when I am working from home.) This is the same cat who, if he decides he wants to be held, will jump into your arms without warning, whether you are sitting or standing.
Any ideas on how to break this behavior? Can I maybe forestall it by giving him "attention breaks" before he asks for them on the days I work from home?