Hi All -
I posted on here awhile ago about some adjustment problems my cats are having, and I'm at the end of my rope because they're getting worse.
In a nutshell - we adopted Rogue and Angel - 2 DSH - at the same time - they got along great. About 3 months ago my fiancees friend was getting rid of his cat for "allergies" and we took her - a norwegian forest cat.
At first Angel was SO nosey and wanted to get near Tessa (the new kitty) and check her out, etc. Rogue was like "eh."
Once tessa started getting adjusted to our place, she learned (although very roughly) to play with rogue - chasing her around and batting at her - and rogue typically does the same.
Angel however - she terrorizes.
Angel is now trapped in the bathroom on the windowsill all the time. The second she comes down - tessa (who is always laying around the corner waiting for her to move) will rush in and try to attack her.
She does this all the time, and at first we could get angel out to eat with the rest, now we cant get her to stay out long enough if she sees tessa anywhere.
It's changing her personality. Angel used to be so playful - her and rogue would have little routines in the morning playing around, they would both sleep on us, eat together, etc. But now angel sits in the window all day doing nothing. She sleeps there at night too, unless we grab her and bring her to bed with us - where she will stay all night (typically they would get up every once in awhile and play) until early morning - then she'll try to sneak back to the bathroom without tessa seeing her.
I feel horrible, it was my idea to take tessa in since we felt bad she was being given away but i feel like crap because it's changed my cats for the worse. I don't know what to do and honestly, ive never given a pet away in my life but I'm ready to give up tessa.
I think it's really unfair to have brought her in when all she does is terrorize angel, and i feel horrible that angel's personality changed and is not the same at all.
What do i do?
I tried all the tricks in the beginning to get them all used to eachother, but something is happening between angel and tessa when we're not home to have made angel terrified of her.
I don't know what to do...I thought I'd give it time but it's getting worse.
I posted on here awhile ago about some adjustment problems my cats are having, and I'm at the end of my rope because they're getting worse.
In a nutshell - we adopted Rogue and Angel - 2 DSH - at the same time - they got along great. About 3 months ago my fiancees friend was getting rid of his cat for "allergies" and we took her - a norwegian forest cat.
At first Angel was SO nosey and wanted to get near Tessa (the new kitty) and check her out, etc. Rogue was like "eh."
Once tessa started getting adjusted to our place, she learned (although very roughly) to play with rogue - chasing her around and batting at her - and rogue typically does the same.
Angel however - she terrorizes.
Angel is now trapped in the bathroom on the windowsill all the time. The second she comes down - tessa (who is always laying around the corner waiting for her to move) will rush in and try to attack her.
She does this all the time, and at first we could get angel out to eat with the rest, now we cant get her to stay out long enough if she sees tessa anywhere.
It's changing her personality. Angel used to be so playful - her and rogue would have little routines in the morning playing around, they would both sleep on us, eat together, etc. But now angel sits in the window all day doing nothing. She sleeps there at night too, unless we grab her and bring her to bed with us - where she will stay all night (typically they would get up every once in awhile and play) until early morning - then she'll try to sneak back to the bathroom without tessa seeing her.
I feel horrible, it was my idea to take tessa in since we felt bad she was being given away but i feel like crap because it's changed my cats for the worse. I don't know what to do and honestly, ive never given a pet away in my life but I'm ready to give up tessa.
I think it's really unfair to have brought her in when all she does is terrorize angel, and i feel horrible that angel's personality changed and is not the same at all.
What do i do?
I tried all the tricks in the beginning to get them all used to eachother, but something is happening between angel and tessa when we're not home to have made angel terrified of her.
I don't know what to do...I thought I'd give it time but it's getting worse.