I found some kittens in my backyard and I dont know if I should try and catch them or leave them alone. They are very nice looking I am not sure how old they are maybe you all can guess. 2 others also came out later on. I have seen the parents before I am not sure which is the male or female does the female always stay with the kittens? I really just want to be friendly with them. Will they get used to me if I give them a drink once in a while?