Our New Maine Coon not a happy camper

holliesmom

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We are over-joyed to be the new parents of a 3 yr old Maine Coon, but he misses his family and his previous home so much. He has not eaten or had any water since 6 PM yesterday when we arrived home with him. He seems lost and very sad. We're kind of worried about the guy. We welcome any and all suggestions or advice!

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Well, I don't know much about this particular situation but I'm sure that if you just make him feel at home, pet him and hold him and let hin know he's safe, he may start to open up. Something like this happened to me when my great-grandmother was put into a resting home, and her cat was given to me (or should I say taken as soon as I was given permission?
) But anyway, he was very scared and seemed wary of the house and our other pets. He hid underneath our staircase, but I stayed there with him every day, and petted him and talked to him all the time. He eased up very quickly and slept on my bed with me every night. We grew very close through my introducing him to our house, and as he had been in his other home 7 years I believe, he came around surprisingly quickly. You'd be very surprised what a little extra care can do. Hope this helps, good luck with your new baby!!!

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I would just leave him be and put out tasty treats for him all over the room. I would go in and sit on the floor and just talk or read a book to him and let him adjust. He isn't at the danger point yet for not eating, and could be in shock. Just keep his room dark and quiet and try to get down to his level. If he is hiding, don't pull him out,and don't force him to sit with you or be next to you. Try different things to tempt him to eat. If the place you got him from is close to you, call over there and ask for a item of clothing out of their hamper that you can just toss in the room with him to make him feel more at ease.
 

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Originally Posted by HolliesMom

We are over-joyed to be the new parents of a 3 yr old Maine Coon, but he misses his family and his previous home so much. He has not eaten or had any water since 6 PM yesterday when we arrived home with him. He seems lost and very sad. We're kind of worried about the guy. We welcome any and all suggestions or advice!

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My boy Franz is a Maine Coon mix, and while I'm not suggesting this has anything to do with the breed, when I got Franz at about 8/9 years of age he reacted the same way...all he wanted to do was hide, it was very distressing. The rescue I got him from, told me "don't let him hide, because he'll never come out" So I followed thier advice, even though the advice here is probably different. He had been at the rescue almost a year and they could not adopt him because he would freak out at their adoption events. Eventually I got him out of hiding with homemade boiled chicken, or at least I think I did, maybe he was just ready. Another think he loved was being brushed..he just adores it. I guess the best thing to do is let him come around at his own pace. Was he at his previous home the whole 3 years? I think he'll come around eventually, but in the mean time I know it breaks your heart.
 
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Originally Posted by Mom of Franz

My boy Franz is a Maine Coon mix, and while I'm not suggesting this has anything to do with the breed, when I got Franz at about 8/9 years of age he reacted the same way...all he wanted to do was hide, it was very distressing. The rescue I got him from, told me "don't let him hide, because he'll never come out" So I followed thier advice, even though the advice here is probably different. He had been at the rescue almost a year and they could not adopt him because he would freak out at their adoption events. Eventually I got him out of hiding with homemade boiled chicken, or at least I think I did, maybe he was just ready. Another think he loved was being brushed..he just adores it. I guess the best thing to do is let him come around at his own pace. Was he at his previous home the whole 3 years? I think he'll come around eventually, but in the mean time I know it breaks your heart.
Thanks so much. He was given up by his owner due to a child with allergies
 

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Thanks Mom of Frantz- I only know strays and ferals-
 
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