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She thinks her husband is mentally abusing her - nothing physicall - but dosen't know if she is being over senitive or not.

Are there any little test she can take or article she can read to help her determine if therei s a problem?
 

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Tracey,

If you go to health.ivillage.com they have those types of tests there. If she thinks she is being mentally abused, chances are she is-
 

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Originally Posted by hissy

Tracey,

If you go to health.ivillage.com they have those types of tests there. If she thinks she is being mentally abused, chances are she is-
ditto!!
 

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Originally Posted by Talon

She thinks her husband is mentally abusing her - nothing physicall - but dosen't know if she is being over senitive or not.

Are there any little test she can take or article she can read to help her determine if therei s a problem?
Whether she is overly sensitive or not, its still abuse. If she is sensitive, he should realize that, and change what he says. A lot of times, we dont realize that what we are saying is considered abuse. What types of things does he say to her? A few examples:

You are so stupid....

You are a moron......

How ignorant can you be?....

If my husband ever called me stupid or insulted my intelligence constantly, he wouldnt be my husband for long....
 
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