my 7 month old male gets over the 5 month old female and tries to have sex - i guess - with her. she had been spayed a month ago. although she won't let him from what i've seen she screams and grouls at him, incase he does can he hurt her.
If your male is still intact, it is conceivable that he will hurt the kitten. If you can seperate them for awhile and introduce them gradually together that will help. But if you male is neutered then it is a case of him showing her who is Alpha, although what you have described is a bit sexually aggressive for a neutered male.
I am sure the large cats have barbs, but domestic males have them as well. It ensures that the sperm is released and gets to where it's going before the female gets angry and pulls away.