Increased aggression from Nano

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As a quick recap, I rescued Nano when she was near death and it has been a long recovery where things are still evolving. She had lived on the streets for a very long time and is best described as semi-feral. We've been together for almost six months.

Nano is a large adult female, 6-8 years old, who is now somewhat overweight but carries the weight on a fairly large frame. I had to train her to use a litterbox, and there were several adjustments in the first few months, but by this point she appears to be comfortable staying inside my apartment. She escapes periodically but she comes back in a hour or two. Overall she gives off many signs of happiness and appears to like her life as a solitary housecat.

But in the last 2-3 weeks, she has become more physically demonstrative when moving about the apartment. It seems she is much more energetic when awake yet sleeps more soundly when napping. While sleeping in the past, it seemed like Nano was always 5% awake and could sense if I walked around or left the apartment. Now...it is like she is dead to the world. I can walk right over her and she won't even flinch.

Meanwhile she has become much more energetic when awake. She runs around the apartment and spends a lot of time stalking Q-tips or playing with her toys. It's not idle play. She is very aggressive and throws her body around with a lot of exertion. Nano always played these same games in the past but it seemed like she was going half-speed -- now she is not holding anything back and really putting 100% into everything. I'm not sure if she is a true hunter or not, but she gifted me a mouse carcass after returning from one of her brief forays outside so she does have a killer instinct.

Her interaction with me has become even more affectionate. If I am in bed, she will always jump on her window perch to "stand guard". When I sit on the couch to read, she will come sit next to me and rest her head on my thigh. She gives me record numbers of head bumps and seems to trust me almost completely.

While she has warmed towards me, her attitude towards others has cooled. She had allowed two other people to pet her, but now she gives those people the cold shoulder and basically ignores them. She ignores treats or food or invitations to play from anyone except me. If someone holds the Cat Dancer, she will turn her back and go play TurboScratcher by herself. If someone offers her a plate of treats, Nano will give them a look then walk back to her bowl of regular food and eat from that -- as if defiantly not accepting those treats (and up to three days later that plate would still be sitting there untouched if I don't clean it up).

If people are over, she will confidently walk around the living room with her tail up in the air (nonfluffed) but indifferent to the visitors. I coach people to leave her alone, but if anyone tries to talk to her or gives her too long of a look she'll puff out her tail and continue strutting around. During these "showdowns" I can hear her claws on the carpet each time she takes a step -- so her claws are out and her tail if puffed, but she doesn't arch her back or hiss or any of the other signs.

Her aggression has not turned against me -- if anything, she has gotten gentler with me. (She's learned how to sit in my lap without accidently scratching me.) But I see the increased intensity of her play, how she appears to be physically stronger. As an analogy, I watched Nano re-gain her motor skills and progress from barely being able to walk to having to awkwardly lunge-jump up to surfaces and finally being able to make silently graceful leaps. Now it seems like I am watching her recover her aggression and physical hunting skills.

As for environmental changes, I tried to think and all I could come up with is that it is warming up for summer here. There were maybe five new stray cats within 100 yards of the building in the last couple weeks. But they were all tame throwaways who were lonely, hungry and scared of their own shadow...I highly doubt Nano would perceive any of them as a threat.Physically she is fine and continues to show signs of improvement. She eats when hungry, consistently drinks water and faithfully uses the litterboxes. She is fully vetted and current with all shots. I just looked her over -- again, she was fine with me examining her -- and she appears to be very healthy.

Here are the problems:

I am concerned that I don't know how far her aggression might go. If her current level is the max, then I guess that's okay...but what if she becomes even more intense? This is not kitten play we are talking about here. Nano is a big alpha girl running around in a regular apartment practicing her hunting skills.

And worse, she is moving more in the direction of being a semi-feral cat who only cares about me and ignores everyone else. Because she was badly abused in the past, I never expected her to accept all humans but I would prefer that she can warm up to non-threatening people fairly quickly. Or at least accept anyone who makes a sustained effort to build her trust.

So what is the limit of her aggressive behavior? I always channel it in good directions and reward her with treats, but sometimes I wonder if I am training a killing machine. And how can I get her back on track as far as getting her socialized to well-meaning people?

(I'm putting my questions here instead of the Behavior forum because I only want answers from people familiar with the actions of rescued or feral cats. I know some people might suggest taking her to a vet to eliminate potential issues, but I disagree and do not take my pets for an unscheduled visit to the clinic when there are no physical symptoms and it appears to be a behavioral/socialization issue.)
 

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IMO this actually, it IS kitten play and you are to be commended. She feels comfortable enough with you now to rediscover what she never had, a kittenhood.Outside, a momcat will not allow her kittens to play. This play is dangerous and it brings in predators. Often if a kitten is to playful and momcat can't get through to the kitten by hissing and swatting, the momcat will often sit on the kitten to quiet it.

When cats are rescued, once they feel safe and bonded and have a routine, they revert to kittenhood and this is what it sounds like Nano is doing. She is paying you an extreme compliment- you have earned her trust- because as a kitten, they cannot fully protect themselves and she knows you will do that-
 

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Originally Posted by hissy

IMO this actually, it IS kitten play and you are to be commended. She feels comfortable enough with you now to rediscover what she never had, a kittenhood.Outside, a momcat will not allow her kittens to play. This play is dangerous and it brings in predators. Often if a kitten is to playful and momcat can't get through to the kitten by hissing and swatting, the momcat will often sit on the kitten to quiet it.

When cats are rescued, once they feel safe and bonded and have a routine, they revert to kittenhood and this is what it sounds like Nano is doing. She is paying you an extreme compliment- you have earned her trust- because as a kitten, they cannot fully protect themselves and she knows you will do that-
 

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As I read your post, I thought that maybe Nano now understands and accepts that she is safe. Now she can sleep soundly, and trust you to keep her safe. Same with play-now she gets it! You are her family, and she plays with you.

As for accepting others, I have heard that a problem with ferals or semi-ferals being fostered is that sometimes they will only connect to one person. If they connect to the foster Mom, it can be traumatic for them to be moved to a new forever home and lose their foster Mom.

Nano is a lucky girl. She has a home, and has linked herself with her new Meowmie. Refusing treats from others is an amazing statement. She loves and trusts only you, no one else. I would recommend you allow her to be a one person cat. Maybe in time she will be more accepting of others.

I have a friend who had a cat who hated everyone but her. Once, when she was on vacation, her cat-sitter held out treats in her hand to feed the kitty. The kitty just swatted the lady's hand, knocking the treats on the floor, so she could eat them without being nice to the lady!


Your kitty is extremely smart, but still trying to keep herself safe. Nano is probably posting on the cats-only board asking how to get you to quit letting weird people in your apartment! The "aggression" she shows others is just kitty warnings. I would not worry that she will attack anyone. Sounds like behavior that is within the range of normal cat stuff to me.

P.S. You have done an impressive job with Nano.
 
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Thanks for the kind words. Okay, if it is a "second childhood" for Nano, that is fine!

But there is a difference between a cute & cuddly little kitten playfully swatting at a ball...and a rough & tumble large adult female violently tearing a ball to shreds. It is fine as long as her aggressive tendencies don't grow much more palpable. There's a limit to what can happen in a quiet apartment complex that is supposed to be restricted to a single 20 lb pet per unit -- although 14 lbs, Nano is throwing herself around like a single big dog or a pack of smaller animals.


I am glad she feels comfortable with me and realize that is a very big step forward, but at some point I need to get her to trust secondary people who are willing to extend the same patience I have given her. It will be a problem if she fixates on me to the point where she shuns everyone else. Who will take care of her if I get called out of town for a week?

I am providing her a forever home but in terms of long range planning -- Nano is only 6-8 years old, and even after all her hard time homeless on the streets, I hope she has another five good years as an indoor cat. What will happen when I have other people such as a wife or kids living with me?

I am not trying to force people on her suddenly and fully know patience will always be needed. But after she had willingly allowed two outside people to touch her (pet her, feed her treats, etc.), she has now moved back from that and gives them the cold shoulder. Even if she is having a second childhood, I'd like some ideas on how I can get her to accept some secondary people.
 
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