One more thing about him HITTING THE PIKE:
When "that magic moment" happens --- when he is on that road out the door, and your sister has gained her life back (not being called stupid any more, not being made fun of any more or put DOWN any more) --- he WILL react.
He will either lose it mentally (because, she existed SOLEY for him to put down so he could feel higher than her... feel better about hisDipstickSelf), OR he will become physically abusive and start wailing on her.
I know the types, and even the emotionally abusive losers like Dipstick who would probably 'never' hit a woman ---- he just might, once he sees she is serious about taking away his reason to be filled with hate. All that hate he has inside for her might come barrelling forth once she leaves him.
Either she needs to have someone there with her when she ends it with him and he's on his way out --- (police? a big strong guy who isn't a Loser?) or she needs to take self-defense lessons. That, or a ton of bottled up rage she can let loose on HIS sorry a$s. Once again the losery types like Dipstick tend to be utter wimps and I betcha if it came down to it, I could kick his butt.
Anyway keep us posted, having been there myself, I know what I'm talking about.
When "that magic moment" happens --- when he is on that road out the door, and your sister has gained her life back (not being called stupid any more, not being made fun of any more or put DOWN any more) --- he WILL react.
He will either lose it mentally (because, she existed SOLEY for him to put down so he could feel higher than her... feel better about hisDipstickSelf), OR he will become physically abusive and start wailing on her.
I know the types, and even the emotionally abusive losers like Dipstick who would probably 'never' hit a woman ---- he just might, once he sees she is serious about taking away his reason to be filled with hate. All that hate he has inside for her might come barrelling forth once she leaves him.
Either she needs to have someone there with her when she ends it with him and he's on his way out --- (police? a big strong guy who isn't a Loser?) or she needs to take self-defense lessons. That, or a ton of bottled up rage she can let loose on HIS sorry a$s. Once again the losery types like Dipstick tend to be utter wimps and I betcha if it came down to it, I could kick his butt.
Anyway keep us posted, having been there myself, I know what I'm talking about.