Fingers are crossed! Some people...
Good point. Letting people know they are blazing idiots is cathartic, to be sure, but most likely does not serve the greater good.Originally Posted by pondwader
Although I am certainly just as angry, and my bank account a hundred dollars emptier, I do believe that we can better teach these people to educate themselves and develop ethics regarding pet ownership by gently, but firmly, pointing out what happens when they are irresponsible.
If I were to yell at every person I see who is not a responsible pet owner, I would have been able to help far fewer pets because they simply would not allow me into their lives.
If we are immediately harsh with people, in person, or on the internet, we push them away, and then who knows what happens to the unfortunate animal in the hands of someone who simply does not know better or understand. We certainly won't find out, because we will have scared them off or offended them so badly that the pet in danger is no longer their focus. If they at least come to us for help, then we should do what we can, without hostility, in order to teach these people what they should be doing rather than what they are doing.
This girl made some grave mistakes.... and has learned through the heartache of losing a kitten, and having to give up her pet because she now realizes she is simply not prepared to care for it.
I think that next time she gets a pet, she will make sure she is ready, and hopefully, will help others who she may meet making the same mistake.