These replies have been very educational for me and I thank you all for them, as far as discipline goes, my baby is still so new to me (only had him for 10 days) i dont think I could ever bring myself to discipline him yet, but I am aware that eventually I will have to and I will be studying these forums to decide upon what I think is the best way.
Anyway, like the topic says, Brother or Sister,
I took the advice in this thread and kept them seperate, but both cried and cried at each other through the door, so i introduced them quite early (same day, i know it was probably not the best thing to do, but read on
Crumbly stalked, pounced and pinned Ruby (his new little sister) to the ground constantly, for a whole day, i was really worried and a bit upset about this as crumbly would not leave her alone, i tried seperating them again but they both cried and cried, I decided to leave them at it and went to bed,
I woke this morning to find them both asleep on each other, and when they woke it was a total role reversal, Ruby kept pouncing on Crumbly!
Now they are the best of friends and I cant remeber I time that I felt as happy,
Ruby wasnt litter trained and left me a little present, so I showed her it and put her in the litter tray with it, later that evening she used the tray all on her own and hasnt been naughty since (I had no idea litter training would be so easy) but... Ruby doesnt cover/bury her poos? but I am so proud of Crumbly as when she is finished, he climbs in and buries it for her.
I have never been so occupied and as happy as I have been these past ten days for very long time
Sorry for rambling, but i just cant help it