We went through this decision last year with our dog. He had osteosarcoma in his leg. We too had the options of amputation or euthanasia. Based on his personality, we did not think he would be a good candidate for the amputation. He would not have adapted well. They couldn't guarentee that the surgery would extend his life at all. We chose to treat him with pain medication until it felt like it was time for him to go. When the day came, he had fallen on his injured leg, and we knew that the suffering outweighed the quality of life. Our only regret was that the vet who had been with us through the whole ordeal was not there the day we let him go.
I would talk to Max. Tell him that you love him and that you don't want to see him suffer. Spend lots of time with him. Jackson's last few weeks were great for him because he was showered with attention. Allow yourself time to mourn for your cat, even if it means you need to take time off from work or school. Write about your favorite experiences with Max, and tell him about them. They may or may not understand our words, but they feel our love and emotion. Gather some favorite pictures for yourself. Talk to whoever will be handling his body after his passing and see if they offer private cremation (where you get the ashes back). Since he enjoyed the garden, return him to it if you wish. Maybe plant some catnip. Be prepared to miss him. We lost our cat Alex in October, and just yesterday, I thought I saw him out of the corner of my eye again. I still expect to hear Jackson barking when I come to the door. It's hard to lose our furry family members, but we are the ones who can give them the best quality of life possible and spare them the suffering. Whatever you choose to do, you do because you love him.
Take care.
I would talk to Max. Tell him that you love him and that you don't want to see him suffer. Spend lots of time with him. Jackson's last few weeks were great for him because he was showered with attention. Allow yourself time to mourn for your cat, even if it means you need to take time off from work or school. Write about your favorite experiences with Max, and tell him about them. They may or may not understand our words, but they feel our love and emotion. Gather some favorite pictures for yourself. Talk to whoever will be handling his body after his passing and see if they offer private cremation (where you get the ashes back). Since he enjoyed the garden, return him to it if you wish. Maybe plant some catnip. Be prepared to miss him. We lost our cat Alex in October, and just yesterday, I thought I saw him out of the corner of my eye again. I still expect to hear Jackson barking when I come to the door. It's hard to lose our furry family members, but we are the ones who can give them the best quality of life possible and spare them the suffering. Whatever you choose to do, you do because you love him.
Take care.