Dear Friends:
Please help. I need all the help working this out that I can get.
Thank you.
My beloved kitty Max, aged 12-15? years, has bone cancer in his right hind foot. He has what they call a pathological fracture in his toe, too. Pathological means it was caused by illness, in this case the cancer. Max is in pain because of the fracture and the swelling of his paw (it looks like he has a golf ball under his skin). But otherwise, he's in great shape. His eyes and teeth are great. His blood work came back fine except for one elevated liver level (probably due to age-the vet says if there were no cancer, she'd just keep an eye on it). He's purring, playing, cuddling, eating, drinking, and sleeping normally.
Here's the hard part: The vet has given me a choice. (By the way, my vet is WONDERFUL! Super compassionate, great at explaining things, takes her time with me, and has fallen in love with Max. Well, really, who hasn't fallen in love with Max? He's pretty amazing.) I can have his right leg amputated at the hip or euthanize him fairly soon (like in the next week or so). Apparently the pathological fracture is too much to bear and the pain medication available (opiates or non-steroidals) have bad side effects when used long term.
My entire focus is on doing what's best for Max. I'm going through a breakup right now and have to move out, but I don't want to make a choice for myself. I would much rather not lose Max right now, but if that's the most humane thing to do, that's what I want to do.
Here are the pros and cons of each option:
Amputation will take all the cancer with margins. With amputation alone, Max could live 2 more years. Or, if the cancer is more aggressive, he might only have 2-6 months. The cancer is spindle cell (which the vet says is good. It doesn't spread easily. The cancer seems to be totally localized to the paw. There doesn't seem to be any lung involvement). Many sites on the internet say that cats respond well to amputation, although Max is older and a little heavy making the adjustment potentially harder. I'm almost positive he wouldn't have to have chemo or radiation. If so, I wouldn't opt for amputation.
Euthanasia...What can I say? It feels too soon to put him to sleep because he's so well other than the foot, but maybe putting him down now while he's still happy would be the most compassionate option. He would die a "whole" cat, without the trauma of amputation. He also would have only another week to live.
Some other things you should know: The amputation is $2000. To do a biopsy to determine the exact kind of cancer (whether he'd have 2 years or 2-6 months to live after amputation) and an abdominal ultrasound (to make SURE there's no cancer in his lower half-the vet says she doubts it since his blood work is so good) is $800. If I do the biopsy/ultrasound first, then the amputation, that's $2800. Too much for me and my family. But I don't want that to be the overriding consideration.
Also, you should know my mom, with whom Max lived the first 8 years of his life, is ADAMANTLY opposed to amputation. She thinks it's cruel and doesn't want me to do it.
Sophie's choice, no?
I'd love to hear any thoughts you have. I'm just trying to consider as many points of view as possible. One minute I'm set on the amputation. The next I can't bear the thought and want to put him down.
Thanks so much! Max thanks you, too. ^..^ Purr. Purr.
Amy and Maxie
Please help. I need all the help working this out that I can get.
Thank you.
My beloved kitty Max, aged 12-15? years, has bone cancer in his right hind foot. He has what they call a pathological fracture in his toe, too. Pathological means it was caused by illness, in this case the cancer. Max is in pain because of the fracture and the swelling of his paw (it looks like he has a golf ball under his skin). But otherwise, he's in great shape. His eyes and teeth are great. His blood work came back fine except for one elevated liver level (probably due to age-the vet says if there were no cancer, she'd just keep an eye on it). He's purring, playing, cuddling, eating, drinking, and sleeping normally.
Here's the hard part: The vet has given me a choice. (By the way, my vet is WONDERFUL! Super compassionate, great at explaining things, takes her time with me, and has fallen in love with Max. Well, really, who hasn't fallen in love with Max? He's pretty amazing.) I can have his right leg amputated at the hip or euthanize him fairly soon (like in the next week or so). Apparently the pathological fracture is too much to bear and the pain medication available (opiates or non-steroidals) have bad side effects when used long term.
My entire focus is on doing what's best for Max. I'm going through a breakup right now and have to move out, but I don't want to make a choice for myself. I would much rather not lose Max right now, but if that's the most humane thing to do, that's what I want to do.
Here are the pros and cons of each option:
Amputation will take all the cancer with margins. With amputation alone, Max could live 2 more years. Or, if the cancer is more aggressive, he might only have 2-6 months. The cancer is spindle cell (which the vet says is good. It doesn't spread easily. The cancer seems to be totally localized to the paw. There doesn't seem to be any lung involvement). Many sites on the internet say that cats respond well to amputation, although Max is older and a little heavy making the adjustment potentially harder. I'm almost positive he wouldn't have to have chemo or radiation. If so, I wouldn't opt for amputation.
Euthanasia...What can I say? It feels too soon to put him to sleep because he's so well other than the foot, but maybe putting him down now while he's still happy would be the most compassionate option. He would die a "whole" cat, without the trauma of amputation. He also would have only another week to live.
Some other things you should know: The amputation is $2000. To do a biopsy to determine the exact kind of cancer (whether he'd have 2 years or 2-6 months to live after amputation) and an abdominal ultrasound (to make SURE there's no cancer in his lower half-the vet says she doubts it since his blood work is so good) is $800. If I do the biopsy/ultrasound first, then the amputation, that's $2800. Too much for me and my family. But I don't want that to be the overriding consideration.
Also, you should know my mom, with whom Max lived the first 8 years of his life, is ADAMANTLY opposed to amputation. She thinks it's cruel and doesn't want me to do it.
Sophie's choice, no?
I'd love to hear any thoughts you have. I'm just trying to consider as many points of view as possible. One minute I'm set on the amputation. The next I can't bear the thought and want to put him down.
Thanks so much! Max thanks you, too. ^..^ Purr. Purr.
Amy and Maxie