Wow, I just read this thread, and I have no clue either. I hope she will just come back and explain what we did to offend her.
What's up with that???
Hey, Lilyrose, I hope you don't leave us, and if something is bothering you, please by all means, tell us! We are here to help. And we don't want you to leave!!!!!
If you can look yourself in the mirror and say with clear conscience that you did nothing to drive this woman away, then that is wonderful! Maybe whoever can't face that person in the mirror will fess up.