Okay here is the problem. i wrote here last week to see how cats would react when meeting. I got some good info so thanks to everyone who took time to respond. The problem now is I have a cat who hates this new kitten. i tried introducing her slow the way i heard about on this website, but my boyfriend completly ignored it and brought the kitten out of the room. Now my calm cat has become aggresive towards us and the kitten. i tried putting the vanilla on both of them since he didnt listen, but it didnt help. she's been hissing and bating at the cat for two days now. The thing that really upsets me is that she wont let us near her. she scratches and hisses at us when we pick her up or touch her and She has NEVER EVER done that.
I know that its only been two days, but how long will this go on? I would love to have to cats, but not if it means changing the personality of my resident cat. I love her so much and I feel so awful...like a bad cat-mama. Please help!
I know that its only been two days, but how long will this go on? I would love to have to cats, but not if it means changing the personality of my resident cat. I love her so much and I feel so awful...like a bad cat-mama. Please help!