Help! My three year old blue point Birman, Oscar, is peeing in my husband's and my bed, and both our daughters' beds. I will check him for a UTI today, but he seems to be a very sensitive animal (I had another Birman before him - Sammy - that I had for 17 years.) and I don't want to give him to Birman Rescue, but we are starting a B&B in our house this summer and he absolutely cannot pee in those beds! I have read about behaviorists. Where does one find one? Is this a curable problem? I have read that once a cat starts this, there is no cure. The family looks at me like it is my fault. What can I do?