warning - LONG (sorry)
Maybe I'm looking for some guidance... or reassurance... or ??... I'm not sure. I think I'm being a bit paranoid...
Cosmo has made his adjustment to our life so far pretty good. Our schedule is anything but consistent having an 11-year-old daughter who has several activities throughout the week at different times. I also work only part-time outside the home, so several days a week I am home. And obviously, like any family, we are in and out at various times for recreational or obligatory reasons.
Cosmo has been eating well... I've got him on the Natural Balance food which he seems to like. Some days I give him a treat, but no more than 1 or 2 and not every day.
We play with him every day... either I do or my daughter does (or both of us do).
Now that spring has finally sprung I am opening windows which he seems to like to perch in. I also started putting birdseed in my backyard so he gets some recreation watching the critters and flyers who come along to eat.
So here's my question... or concern...
He "cries" a LOT. I'm not sure if it's crying or meowing for attention or just talking. He'll meow at me when he follows me into a room. He meows at us when we come home. If he's napping or just relaxing and you pet him, he'll trill at you (like a meowy purr). He meows and chases my feet when he wants to play. He meows at me when I get out of the shower!
He seems to have this routine... he follows me and my daugher around first thing in the morning while we're getting up and dressed... then around 9am he goes to my daughters room to this little warm corner he likes and gets his morning nap. Around mid-day (1pm) if I'm home he comes out... if I'm not home obviously I'm not sure, but he seems to come out when I come home (around 3pm). He follows me around meowing at me. I always say hi and pet him but no amount of petting or playing seems to satisfy him. He REALLY has taken to me specifically and follows me around the house when I am home (right now he is perched on his carpet post/bed behind me watching me type). From late afternoon through to almost my daughter's bedtime he is pretty persistently meowing at us if we are not paying attention to him. This is the timeframe where one of us will play with him usually (though the days I'm home I may take a break from work or other responsibilities to give him little spurts of play). He always quiets down with the meowing around "bedtimes" or when things in the house quiet down (10-midnight). Then at the crack of dawn it starts again as soon as my husband alarm clock starts to sound...
Since opening the windows the last few days his meowing seems to maybe be "worse" (or more). I sometimes get the impression he wants to go out (he was a shelter rescue so it's possible he was outside for some time). I want to keep him an indoor only kitty. He was neutered just before we adopted him (March 19th).
Sometimes the meows are just typical meows. Sometimes they are low and groany (more like when you hear a Tom outside). But both types seem to occur sporadically, not tied to any one desire (that I can figure out).
Maybe I'm just not used to such a vocal guy. Comere (RB) was vocal but only when he very specifically wanted something like food or water or to go out. I'm not used to talking or crying for attention... it makes me feel like he's not happy or something is wrong! (though he seems good other than the meowing).
Last but not least... and off topic a bit... he had some diarrhea today (today only). It is common or ok for kitties to have it once in a while as long as it doesn't continue? I may just be paranoid with having to put Comere to sleep last month... Also, he's been scratching a bit. It could be fleas from Comere (since Comere used to be an indoor-outdoor cat) but he was given and Advantix treatment the day we brought him home, and I see flakes by his tail which makes me think dry-skin... is that "common" during shedding season? Is there anything I can do to alleviate it? Would "itchiness" cause crying? He's not scratching/grooming overly a lot, but enough that I've noticed.
So if you made it through my excessively long post, do I have anything to worry about, or is this all just "normal"? He got a clean bill of health from the vet the day before we adopted him. His appetite is good, he's drinking water, he's using his litter box, and he is spunky and playful, including at least twice a day when he gets cat skitzos and tears around the house like a mad-man. He has everything he needs and then some -- matter of fact my husband says we're spoiling him
-- maybe that answers the whole post right there
Thanks
Maybe I'm looking for some guidance... or reassurance... or ??... I'm not sure. I think I'm being a bit paranoid...
Cosmo has made his adjustment to our life so far pretty good. Our schedule is anything but consistent having an 11-year-old daughter who has several activities throughout the week at different times. I also work only part-time outside the home, so several days a week I am home. And obviously, like any family, we are in and out at various times for recreational or obligatory reasons.
Cosmo has been eating well... I've got him on the Natural Balance food which he seems to like. Some days I give him a treat, but no more than 1 or 2 and not every day.
We play with him every day... either I do or my daughter does (or both of us do).
Now that spring has finally sprung I am opening windows which he seems to like to perch in. I also started putting birdseed in my backyard so he gets some recreation watching the critters and flyers who come along to eat.
So here's my question... or concern...
He "cries" a LOT. I'm not sure if it's crying or meowing for attention or just talking. He'll meow at me when he follows me into a room. He meows at us when we come home. If he's napping or just relaxing and you pet him, he'll trill at you (like a meowy purr). He meows and chases my feet when he wants to play. He meows at me when I get out of the shower!
He seems to have this routine... he follows me and my daugher around first thing in the morning while we're getting up and dressed... then around 9am he goes to my daughters room to this little warm corner he likes and gets his morning nap. Around mid-day (1pm) if I'm home he comes out... if I'm not home obviously I'm not sure, but he seems to come out when I come home (around 3pm). He follows me around meowing at me. I always say hi and pet him but no amount of petting or playing seems to satisfy him. He REALLY has taken to me specifically and follows me around the house when I am home (right now he is perched on his carpet post/bed behind me watching me type). From late afternoon through to almost my daughter's bedtime he is pretty persistently meowing at us if we are not paying attention to him. This is the timeframe where one of us will play with him usually (though the days I'm home I may take a break from work or other responsibilities to give him little spurts of play). He always quiets down with the meowing around "bedtimes" or when things in the house quiet down (10-midnight). Then at the crack of dawn it starts again as soon as my husband alarm clock starts to sound...
Since opening the windows the last few days his meowing seems to maybe be "worse" (or more). I sometimes get the impression he wants to go out (he was a shelter rescue so it's possible he was outside for some time). I want to keep him an indoor only kitty. He was neutered just before we adopted him (March 19th).
Sometimes the meows are just typical meows. Sometimes they are low and groany (more like when you hear a Tom outside). But both types seem to occur sporadically, not tied to any one desire (that I can figure out).
Maybe I'm just not used to such a vocal guy. Comere (RB) was vocal but only when he very specifically wanted something like food or water or to go out. I'm not used to talking or crying for attention... it makes me feel like he's not happy or something is wrong! (though he seems good other than the meowing).
Last but not least... and off topic a bit... he had some diarrhea today (today only). It is common or ok for kitties to have it once in a while as long as it doesn't continue? I may just be paranoid with having to put Comere to sleep last month... Also, he's been scratching a bit. It could be fleas from Comere (since Comere used to be an indoor-outdoor cat) but he was given and Advantix treatment the day we brought him home, and I see flakes by his tail which makes me think dry-skin... is that "common" during shedding season? Is there anything I can do to alleviate it? Would "itchiness" cause crying? He's not scratching/grooming overly a lot, but enough that I've noticed.
So if you made it through my excessively long post, do I have anything to worry about, or is this all just "normal"? He got a clean bill of health from the vet the day before we adopted him. His appetite is good, he's drinking water, he's using his litter box, and he is spunky and playful, including at least twice a day when he gets cat skitzos and tears around the house like a mad-man. He has everything he needs and then some -- matter of fact my husband says we're spoiling him
Thanks