I have a problem that I am simply unable to get an answer to from any resouce. My alpha, Cosmo, is an outside guy. We fondly call him the Prince of the Backyard Emirates. He has been with us for over 10 years. He has lived at our current location for almost 4 years. About 8 weeks ago, Cosmo quit coming home.
As it turns out, he had been hanging out at a neighbor's property. It is adjacent to our property, actually a tad higher up on a small hill. Cosmo came back home for a meal with a new collar and a note asking if he belonged to us. We called the phone number on the collar and told the folks that indeed he is a pet, well loved, missed terribly. They had been locking him inside their house at night, put a bell around his neck (something I don't agree with) and basically broke the spirit of my handsome boy. We have attempted to work out a reconditioning situation with the neighbors although I have my doubts about their intentions. I did request that they stop allowing him into their home, and to stop feeding him so he would get the idea to come back home.
I am beside myself over this. Cosmo isn't returning even to eat. Not sure what to do. I have researched the legal implications of neighbors taking cats and converting them into their own. In California, this is a crime.
Rather than create a legal issue, I want to tackle this from the cat's point of view --his behavior and why he would leave.
Cosmo has lived with three other cats, all indoor/outdoor, for years. He also has a parrot pal too, who loves and respects him. Nothing has changed at our home, with the exception of Cosmo not coming home.
Any wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
As it turns out, he had been hanging out at a neighbor's property. It is adjacent to our property, actually a tad higher up on a small hill. Cosmo came back home for a meal with a new collar and a note asking if he belonged to us. We called the phone number on the collar and told the folks that indeed he is a pet, well loved, missed terribly. They had been locking him inside their house at night, put a bell around his neck (something I don't agree with) and basically broke the spirit of my handsome boy. We have attempted to work out a reconditioning situation with the neighbors although I have my doubts about their intentions. I did request that they stop allowing him into their home, and to stop feeding him so he would get the idea to come back home.
I am beside myself over this. Cosmo isn't returning even to eat. Not sure what to do. I have researched the legal implications of neighbors taking cats and converting them into their own. In California, this is a crime.
Rather than create a legal issue, I want to tackle this from the cat's point of view --his behavior and why he would leave.
Cosmo has lived with three other cats, all indoor/outdoor, for years. He also has a parrot pal too, who loves and respects him. Nothing has changed at our home, with the exception of Cosmo not coming home.
Any wisdom would be greatly appreciated.