Are Ya Friendly, Feisty, Funny or What ARE ya??

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Today somebody asked me what my "social style" was. .....social style??

I feel I am a bit of a loner. I will go to parties, but be the first to leave to do something else, usually alone with things that really interest me. SO! I pondered that for awhile. I talked to people around my office and we came up with these 8 distinct social personalities - the way you are to the outside world - or how you see yourself objectively in the outside world (not TCS
)Why do you feel you are the way you are?? Family? Where you live? What you do? ?

Well, the poll worked (thanks Heidi!!) Vote above~~

1. I am the life of the party - a lampshade!

2. I'm a loner, I go my own way

3. I am a feisty social climber - get me to the society pages!

4. I am a good mixer but it's all superficial

5. I am painfully shy and would rather be the wallpaper.

6. I am perfectly comfortable and truly enjoy myself.

7. I am a geek and go to cyper parties only.

8. Where are we????
 
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sashacat421

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Originally Posted by sandra

Definitely # 2 and 7 for me E
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Well darn, I am trying to get my poll to work!
Sandra, you can come to my party any time. I'm a loner too, so it will be just me and you!
 

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It's really hard to vote. It really depeds on my mood. SOme days I loke the party sceane. Others I would rather stay home.
 

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Gee... good question, Elizabeth.

It's essential for me to be true to myself and I need to feel comfortable in my own skin, so I don't force myself to go out when I feel like hell, or suppress a good mood by holing myself up in my apartment.

When I'm stuck in a depression I like to hide out from the world, become a recluse of sorts, and spend far too much time on my laptop.
So in that sense I tend to be a loner at times (more often than not).

If I am feeling upbeat I will go out more with friends, hit a pub or go to a movie, get out for rides on my scooter, and am generally just more active. Sometimes I can be the life of the party, and believe me, I can party with the best (often to my own surprise/horror!).


We're all such complex and unique individuals that I believe it's difficult to pin our personalities down to one "type", and often situational triggers dictate our moods.
 

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well i dont have friends here so im a loner... maybe for us loners we can do our own party.
But i choosed "where are we" because i dont even know where i am half of the time
 

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I'm a 6. I think that comes with age. You finally realize you have to be comfortable in being yourself.
 

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I had a bit of trouble with the poll, so I perfer to anwser in a post.

I love to be with a friend or two, but hate to be in a huge crowd. I also perfer to be alone when I'm sad, but hate to be alone when I'm excited.
 

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I am truly comfortable with who I am. That being said I like small gathering of friend rather than big parties. And I am afraid my life of the party lampshade on the head day are far behind me


Tricia
 

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Ahhh... Tricia... So you are admitting that you were a lampshade girl in your younger days????????

And Yayi, exactly what type of experiences are you referring to? We want details.
 
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