Hi everyone,
Well, it has been a ROUGH 2 days for my family. Yesterday, my mom called and asked me if I was sitting down. I knew that was a bad sign. She then told me that the son of my cousin Peggy (she was actually my grandma's cousin; she is in her late 80's now and just an absolute joy to be around; she's one of those wonderful people that you wish no harm to come to) committed suicide yesterday. Now, I've never met Jerry (he lived in Ohio), but I spend every Christmas with Peggy in FL and know how much she loves her son. She is obviously devastated and I don't know how this will affect her health. I am just crying buckets for her
; this is really rough on our family. So that was yesterday.
But wait, there's more.
A couple of days ago, my mom called me to tell me that my little brother was getting some big award (we don't know what it's for yet) from his college and will be presented with it during Parent's Weekend, which is coming up. Well, since my parents had a particularly bad divorce, they take turns each year going up for Parent's Weekend and this was my dad's year to go. But, as soon as mom found out that Jeff was being awarded, and since they want parental participation in the ceremony, mom immediately made plans to go up for this, too. Well, I just found out from my dad that since mom is going, he is no longer going. He said, "I just don't think your mom and I can be in the same room yet." ::censor::censor::censor::
Come on! They divorced 3 years ago, they are both GROWN ADULTS, and they do not need to sit near or speak to one another. Mom doesn't care if Dad is there; she knows how important it is for my little brother to have BOTH parents there. But Dad is far too selfish and now he is not going. I feel SO horrible for my little brother and do not think I can ever forgive my father
So, needless to say, my family could use some major good vibes right now. Thanks for listening to me vent y'all, I appreciate it
Well, it has been a ROUGH 2 days for my family. Yesterday, my mom called and asked me if I was sitting down. I knew that was a bad sign. She then told me that the son of my cousin Peggy (she was actually my grandma's cousin; she is in her late 80's now and just an absolute joy to be around; she's one of those wonderful people that you wish no harm to come to) committed suicide yesterday. Now, I've never met Jerry (he lived in Ohio), but I spend every Christmas with Peggy in FL and know how much she loves her son. She is obviously devastated and I don't know how this will affect her health. I am just crying buckets for her
But wait, there's more.
A couple of days ago, my mom called me to tell me that my little brother was getting some big award (we don't know what it's for yet) from his college and will be presented with it during Parent's Weekend, which is coming up. Well, since my parents had a particularly bad divorce, they take turns each year going up for Parent's Weekend and this was my dad's year to go. But, as soon as mom found out that Jeff was being awarded, and since they want parental participation in the ceremony, mom immediately made plans to go up for this, too. Well, I just found out from my dad that since mom is going, he is no longer going. He said, "I just don't think your mom and I can be in the same room yet." ::censor::censor::censor::
Come on! They divorced 3 years ago, they are both GROWN ADULTS, and they do not need to sit near or speak to one another. Mom doesn't care if Dad is there; she knows how important it is for my little brother to have BOTH parents there. But Dad is far too selfish and now he is not going. I feel SO horrible for my little brother and do not think I can ever forgive my father
So, needless to say, my family could use some major good vibes right now. Thanks for listening to me vent y'all, I appreciate it