I know everyone planning their wedding has said it, but I am for real.
I am just trying to decide the best way to manage it. I know people are going to be upset, and there will surely be claws out and in full swing, but it's my day. So, we've decided, I am going to buy my marriage licence on Tuesday, and that gives us three months to tie the knot.
So, here's my plan so far
Buying the licence Monday, picking the date and booking the chambers asap. I will be getting married in toronto city hall at a totally non-religious ceremony. Done! Voila! Means the same thing to me without the 'background noise'
I will be picking 2 witnesses, I will still be wearing my suit and tie, and we'll just pick my fav restaurant afterwards then maybe go bar hopping and play pool all night or something! I think it's more me than a formal affair.
Now, ladies (and maybe gents) should I tell anyone in my family? Or wait until after? I was thinking of telling a select few, and basically saying where, when, be there if you can, stay home if you can't.
Eloping is right for me, I just want my families reaction to it to be minimal.
I am just trying to decide the best way to manage it. I know people are going to be upset, and there will surely be claws out and in full swing, but it's my day. So, we've decided, I am going to buy my marriage licence on Tuesday, and that gives us three months to tie the knot.
So, here's my plan so far
Buying the licence Monday, picking the date and booking the chambers asap. I will be getting married in toronto city hall at a totally non-religious ceremony. Done! Voila! Means the same thing to me without the 'background noise'
I will be picking 2 witnesses, I will still be wearing my suit and tie, and we'll just pick my fav restaurant afterwards then maybe go bar hopping and play pool all night or something! I think it's more me than a formal affair.
Now, ladies (and maybe gents) should I tell anyone in my family? Or wait until after? I was thinking of telling a select few, and basically saying where, when, be there if you can, stay home if you can't.
Eloping is right for me, I just want my families reaction to it to be minimal.