I have seen my Grandson, Noah, about 2 times a year from the beginning 5 years ago. My Son and his Mother never married. They do not get along and she blames him for some vandalism, and everything else that goes wrong in her life and calls to tell me every time he supposedly does something. Her new illiterate boyfriend actually called my cell phone and left a message, I no longer have the message, that he was going to "_ _ _ _ my Son up". I know for a fact this most recent incident my Son was nowhere around her home. The other times I was not a witness to his whereabouts so I can't say, but she has other people who very possibly could've done this. This most recent incident happened the night my daughter got married this past Saturday. She told me that none of my Son's family, including me, will ever see my Grandson again because of this. She picked this fight with me and after years of her stupidity I finally told her she was a B_ _ _ _ , and I didn't have to listen to her bull. My Son has no visitation at all and hasn't been allowed to see him for well over a year. He will not pay child support for her to spend on herself (I know, he should) so I know he has no legal rights to see him. She lives with her parents who live comfortably. During this recent conversation she told me we are so beneath her because her Dad makes what he does, and we live in a "piece of _ _ _ _ house". That is not true either. We make $XXK (she doesn't know what we earn) a year and I assume he makes $XXXK. Why this matters, I have no idea. She herself has nothing of monetary value. She actually told me I can't afford to do anything about this. She is very wrong and plays this child as a pawn from several different angles. Her parents wanted her to move out a while back and they would not pursue it because she would take Noah and they don't know how they would live. Her parents love Noah very much. A few weeks ago I called to talk to my Grandson and when I talked to her after we were finished she sweetly told me to call anytime. I seriously think she has mental problems and this will or already has an effect on my Grandson. There has got to be something I can do about her. I love Noah, and she is wickedly spiteful.
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3/22/05 at 7:11pm