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Hi people, this would be my second post here. The first was an intro, since I thought it'd be rude to simply jump straight into begging for advice. Since I got that out of the way, it's on to the begging for advice.
My girlfriend and I live together with our 4 cats, a snake, and a soon to be dog. So far, the pet giving the least amount of trouble is one cat and the snake. Good news for me, right? Well here's what's going on.
We moved in together about 2 months ago and kinda rushed into the kitty intro's. Two males hadn't been fixed yet, so there was posturing and hate, but it all cleared up when they got snipped. The problem is really two problems (and they're both pretty much my cats). First, a small intro of the kitties.
Patrick Swayze - My girlfriend's Persian prince. He's the most well behaved and does nothing wrong aside from when he wants attention. When he realizes you're looking, he stops and purrs. He's really a darling of a kitty. He's about one and a half.
Pickle - Also my girlfriend's cat, he was a rescue kitty and is a VERY big baby. He's the biggest of the cats and is around 3 years old. The problem with him is that he doesn't know just how big and powerful he is, and he sometimes jumps into playing a little rough with my cats and Patrick, who are significantly smaller.
Kirara - My little rescue kitten. She's a mixed breed i'm sure, but she looks more like a lynx-point siamese than anything and is roughly 8 months old. She's a bit vocal, but not to the point of annoyance. I found her on my doorstep starving and flea-ridden, so I took her in, bathed her, fed her, and then kept her for myself.
Wigwam - My other kitty with a big attitude. He thinks he's the king of everything and doesn't have to listen to anyone - me included. He's about 7 monhts old. I've never met a kitty with so much of a loving temperament one minute and a love to disobey the next. I took him from my parents' house when my sister brought him home. You could say he was shoved on me, but I didn't mind at the time.
Alright, now for the problems:
Conflict 1) Wigwam feels he doesn't need to listen to anyone. We've tried everything to get him to obey us but he just doesn't want to. If he jumps on the table, you can't just say "Wigwam, get down!" in a stern voice. You sometimes have to physically move him, and sometimes it takes him seeing you get up for him to move. If you scruff him, he'll take a slow smack at you. I think a lot of this comes from him being about 6 months old when I got him and really having nothing to do with his upbringing, but it's ever so frustrating. On top of this, he gets to playing rough with Pickle and starts crying because he can't stand to lose. When he does this he gets aggressive and brings claws out. Any suggestions on how to tame the evil beast?
Conflict 2) For some reason Kirara hates Pickle with a burning fiery passion. Everytime he so much as walks within 3 feet of her, she growls, hisses, and meow's wildly. Perhaps it stems from my not having her spayed yet (but on a college budget, 3 neutered males, and all of them living inside, i'm waiting to do so when money permits) but she gets along very well with Patrick and Wigwam. Note: When they were all introduced, Wigwam and Patrick weren't neutered. Pickle was. I don't know if that says much. Anyway, Pickle seems to think she's playing when she darts under a couch or something, and persues her. I tried doing the vanilla thing to all the cats the other night with the glimmer of hope that something might change for the better, but it only got worse. Apparently Pickle now feels more at home chasing her down to play, and she feels more afraid of him (probably due to him being 3 times her size). Ideas?
Sorry to have written a small novel, i'm at my wit's end though, and the only thing that I can do if these problems aren't solved are find new homes for Wigwam and Kirara, which I don't want to do. Thanks for reading.
My girlfriend and I live together with our 4 cats, a snake, and a soon to be dog. So far, the pet giving the least amount of trouble is one cat and the snake. Good news for me, right? Well here's what's going on.
We moved in together about 2 months ago and kinda rushed into the kitty intro's. Two males hadn't been fixed yet, so there was posturing and hate, but it all cleared up when they got snipped. The problem is really two problems (and they're both pretty much my cats). First, a small intro of the kitties.
Patrick Swayze - My girlfriend's Persian prince. He's the most well behaved and does nothing wrong aside from when he wants attention. When he realizes you're looking, he stops and purrs. He's really a darling of a kitty. He's about one and a half.
Pickle - Also my girlfriend's cat, he was a rescue kitty and is a VERY big baby. He's the biggest of the cats and is around 3 years old. The problem with him is that he doesn't know just how big and powerful he is, and he sometimes jumps into playing a little rough with my cats and Patrick, who are significantly smaller.
Kirara - My little rescue kitten. She's a mixed breed i'm sure, but she looks more like a lynx-point siamese than anything and is roughly 8 months old. She's a bit vocal, but not to the point of annoyance. I found her on my doorstep starving and flea-ridden, so I took her in, bathed her, fed her, and then kept her for myself.
Wigwam - My other kitty with a big attitude. He thinks he's the king of everything and doesn't have to listen to anyone - me included. He's about 7 monhts old. I've never met a kitty with so much of a loving temperament one minute and a love to disobey the next. I took him from my parents' house when my sister brought him home. You could say he was shoved on me, but I didn't mind at the time.
Alright, now for the problems:
Conflict 1) Wigwam feels he doesn't need to listen to anyone. We've tried everything to get him to obey us but he just doesn't want to. If he jumps on the table, you can't just say "Wigwam, get down!" in a stern voice. You sometimes have to physically move him, and sometimes it takes him seeing you get up for him to move. If you scruff him, he'll take a slow smack at you. I think a lot of this comes from him being about 6 months old when I got him and really having nothing to do with his upbringing, but it's ever so frustrating. On top of this, he gets to playing rough with Pickle and starts crying because he can't stand to lose. When he does this he gets aggressive and brings claws out. Any suggestions on how to tame the evil beast?
Conflict 2) For some reason Kirara hates Pickle with a burning fiery passion. Everytime he so much as walks within 3 feet of her, she growls, hisses, and meow's wildly. Perhaps it stems from my not having her spayed yet (but on a college budget, 3 neutered males, and all of them living inside, i'm waiting to do so when money permits) but she gets along very well with Patrick and Wigwam. Note: When they were all introduced, Wigwam and Patrick weren't neutered. Pickle was. I don't know if that says much. Anyway, Pickle seems to think she's playing when she darts under a couch or something, and persues her. I tried doing the vanilla thing to all the cats the other night with the glimmer of hope that something might change for the better, but it only got worse. Apparently Pickle now feels more at home chasing her down to play, and she feels more afraid of him (probably due to him being 3 times her size). Ideas?
Sorry to have written a small novel, i'm at my wit's end though, and the only thing that I can do if these problems aren't solved are find new homes for Wigwam and Kirara, which I don't want to do. Thanks for reading.