well this is day 3 at home with Lilly and I am a little worried about her settling in. she pretty much stays under the bed all the time still except to use the litter box or come out for food a couple times daily. I guess I was hoping for a quicker adjustment, but this is all probably normal and I should not be worried.
We were able to lure her out with food for about 20 min today (we fed her and Ebony together) and she let us pet her (once she is fully comfortable I can tell she will be a luv bug). She even left our bedroom for about 30 sec to check out the bathroom and hallway.
The good news is, she has no problems with other cats. We did the first supervised Ebony and Lilly introduction today and Lilly was calm. Ebony did not hiss she was just staring and trying to figure it all out. When Lilly tried to go into the bathroom to the place where Eb's litterbox was, Ebony followed and then got upset and started hissing at Lilly when she emerged. That we decided was the end of their visit for today.
I guess my biggest concern is Lilly being under the bed for most of the day. What can I try to help coax her out and make her more comfortable with us? Would Feliway help? Or does she simply need more time?
We were able to lure her out with food for about 20 min today (we fed her and Ebony together) and she let us pet her (once she is fully comfortable I can tell she will be a luv bug). She even left our bedroom for about 30 sec to check out the bathroom and hallway.
The good news is, she has no problems with other cats. We did the first supervised Ebony and Lilly introduction today and Lilly was calm. Ebony did not hiss she was just staring and trying to figure it all out. When Lilly tried to go into the bathroom to the place where Eb's litterbox was, Ebony followed and then got upset and started hissing at Lilly when she emerged. That we decided was the end of their visit for today.
I guess my biggest concern is Lilly being under the bed for most of the day. What can I try to help coax her out and make her more comfortable with us? Would Feliway help? Or does she simply need more time?