I posted this in "update on blackberry," but then thought maybe a new thread would be more effective.
Does anyone believe I should be trying to draw Blackberry out? She's 6 days post-op, and I've seen her jump up on the counter (to get in the sink), so I believe she's physically okay. But once she's in that sink, she hardly lifts her head. It's like she's burying herself to avoid us. She doesn't attack when we pet her, but she's definitely tense. I'm not sure whether we should keep doing what we're doing (going in several times a day to pet her), leave her alone more, or try and engage her.
She was out of the sink for a few minutes tonight, so tried to engage her. I played with her with the bead string a little. She chased it with her eyes and batted and bit at it, but then retreated behind the toilet. I petted her, then lured her toward me with a piece of turkey. She came forward a few inches, but that clearly was all she was comfortable doing, so I came to her and fed her the turkey, which she took out of my hand.
I'm afraid if we don't attempt to draw her out, she'll stay in her shell and we'll have a cat that just lives in our sink (or under a bed, once we let her out of the bathroom) for the next 15 years. But I'm also afraid if we move too fast, she'll retreat more or lash out. Any thoughts?
Does anyone believe I should be trying to draw Blackberry out? She's 6 days post-op, and I've seen her jump up on the counter (to get in the sink), so I believe she's physically okay. But once she's in that sink, she hardly lifts her head. It's like she's burying herself to avoid us. She doesn't attack when we pet her, but she's definitely tense. I'm not sure whether we should keep doing what we're doing (going in several times a day to pet her), leave her alone more, or try and engage her.
She was out of the sink for a few minutes tonight, so tried to engage her. I played with her with the bead string a little. She chased it with her eyes and batted and bit at it, but then retreated behind the toilet. I petted her, then lured her toward me with a piece of turkey. She came forward a few inches, but that clearly was all she was comfortable doing, so I came to her and fed her the turkey, which she took out of my hand.
I'm afraid if we don't attempt to draw her out, she'll stay in her shell and we'll have a cat that just lives in our sink (or under a bed, once we let her out of the bathroom) for the next 15 years. But I'm also afraid if we move too fast, she'll retreat more or lash out. Any thoughts?