Disliking people..............

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Originally Posted by kittylover4ever

Susan and I were just talking about disliking people, and I wondered if you all have someone in your life that you'd like to
?? I would like to do that to my husbands boss at work.
you too?? Not so much hubby's boss as some of the people he works with...

Last weekend I was on site with him at a convention he had planned and these people are just too much! I am helping him look for a new job as we speak!!

but lets see...when it comes to me I definitely have a coworker in mind
--I have done so much to help her and to absorb some of her duties so people wouldn't see how far behind she was because I cared about her and today when she was confronted about how behind she has gotten (she went on vacation during her busiest time of the year--I cant cover that!!!) she had the NERVE to say that it was because my coworker and I were mean to her and that we shouldn't call ourselves Christians because we treat her so badly!! :censor::censor::censor:!!
omg...long day...sorry...
 

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all of the people i want to hammer dont exist in my life anymore!

I hope im not on anyones hit list...
 

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Originally Posted by consumercity

Anyone who is cruel to animals deserves the sledgehammer.

Also, almost every boss I've ever had.
I found my sledgehammer now. I guess I was just thinking of people I know.
 

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People that take advantage of my good natured husband that can't seem to say no to outrageous demands.
He seems to attract every two faced user there is. I will help anyone that needs me but jeez some people can't be pleased. Yes there are a couple of them hanging around right now.


Tricia
 

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The people my s/o and I used to work for. They are the scum of the earth.
A girl I went to school with that was supposed to be my friend, then called the Massage Licensing Board and told them I was working unlicensed, when I was actually only doing paperwork and answering phones at the place, not doing massages. I found out this was why my license was held up for months.
Those are the only people I would like to actually like to have 5 minutes alone in a locked room with a big stick. Anyone else I can pretty much just ignore or stay away from.
 

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Originally Posted by sashacat421

I really dislike gossips and people who will be all nicey-nice to your face and then talk about you behind your back. Why bother with all that? What's the point? Just say it like you feel it and we can take it outside!
I definitely agree with you there!

There's a large chunk of people at work that are on my own personal hit list... and quite a few from my fiance's old job. Gimme the hammer!
 

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I have alot of people on my "hit list"


Carl-my brother who is mean to peaches
Mark- my parent's favorites
some teachers at school
president bush

finally...... Every single person who has ever abused animals or people or both!
 

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Personally, I would like to strangle most of my clients' families.
My clients are elderly Medicaid recipients who are in nursing homes. The few that I have met are very sweet, good and appreciative. I really like them. They're mostly good people who have worked hard all their lives.
Their families on the other hand....
Are rude, nasty and want to grub their elderly relative's money.
Ohhhhh it makes me sooooooo mad I could spit!!!

Originally Posted by sashacat421
I really dislike gossips and people who will be all nicey-nice to your face and then talk about you behind your back. Why bother with all that? What's the point? Just say it like you feel it and we can take it outside!
I wholeheartedly agree. Especially when you have to work with them.
 

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Originally Posted by captiva

I seriously don't have a "hit list". No, it's not because people don't drive me crazy, I just don't let it get to me that much usually. I will usually tell someone to their face they drive me crazy or that they are going to make my head explode. Maybe that's why I don't get to the sledgehammer point - I just let them know early on if they are bugging me
That's me too! <high 5 Chris! >
 

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Originally Posted by captiva

I seriously don't have a "hit list". No, it's not because people don't drive me crazy, I just don't let it get to me that much usually. I will usually tell someone to their face they drive me crazy or that they are going to make my head explode. Maybe that's why I don't get to the sledgehammer point - I just let them know early on if they are bugging me
Mostly people don't get to me enough to want them on a hit list, and mostly if someone is that irritating, we talk about it. But there are a few high-calibre schmucks I could cheerfully decaptitate -- unfortunately, to do so would create more problems than it would solve, and my issues with them are not ones that are amenable to discussion.
 

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One of my coworkers is a total PIG! She whines about things that have "happened" to her, which turn out to be things that she's done to herself. One of those things is something that has absolutely HORRIFIED everyone, on our team - she allowed her child-molester husband BACK into the house AFTER he'd been caught molesting their children and court-ordered to stay away, pending his trial. SHE lost custody of the kids and can't get them back, even though he's in jail, for the rest of his life (several CONSECUTIVE sentences).

She constantly butts into other people's conversations and tries to turn the subject around to her. The majority of our team has chosen to just act as if she's not there - not speaking to her or answering her questions. Today, she went whining to our supe: "Everybody's ignoring me!" Yup, that's EXACTLY what we're doing. The supe just said that he can't FORCE anyone to talk to her. (HE has kids, too).

Some people are alive, simply because its against the law to kill them.
 

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oh yes- i am familiar with hit lists!

there is one girl on mine and she knows it as imo theres no point in being pissed of with someone and having them not know it.

she's a very jealous, petty, insecure person and to make matters worse a down right liar. i used to pity her but now i dont even feel that.

when i found out what she was saying about me i confronted her and when that didnt work i deleted her email account (very mature i know!). i considered it a public duty to stop her spreading her diatribe.

she's ended up one very lonely girl through her own lies. so i guess karma gets there in the end.
 

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Although (as posted earlier) my hubby would happily reduce the world's population overnight I, on the other hand, don't get so wound up about it.

I work on the basis that with so many people in the world I can't possible get on with them all and equally I'm sure there are many people who find me irritating. Anyone who does something nasty to me, is probably treating others in the same way and as life has a habit of delivering its own revenge, will reap what they sow in the end. Consequently, I let it roll off my back and focus on the positive things in my life instead. I can only control what I do myself, and therefore my concern is making sure I can live with my own conscience when I go to sleep at night.
 

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Oooh, I have a few people on my hit list!


It is generally the people (in the art world) who steal my ideas and pass them off as their own. Or the people wo look down on me in the art world for no reason that I can see


Especially a girl from my first and second year at uni, she was always talking down to me - all of my friends noticed. Then the next week when her boyfriend wasn't talking to her (but he was speaking to me) she was linking arms with me and asking to sit with me and go to lunch with me????
Two faced or what?!

I do keep it ok with them though, as if I know what they are doing, I can make sure that I am always working on my own thing that I haven't discussed!

(it has happened to me in uni TOO many times!)
 

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OHHHHH YEAH!!! I've definitely got a few.

My boyfriend's old boss will be one. I've never met such a vile human being in all my life!!! Never has someone made my blood boil so much the FIRST TIME I MET THEM! I was FUMING for hours after I had my first encounter with this woman.


My roomie from last year would also be a great one for that list. I swear to you she's a nutcase. I'm NOT even exaggerating. She's FRIGHTENING and maddening at the same time. Thank god she's gone for good!!!
 

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Most of them I just ignore but sometimes you are forced to deal with people you don't like -
My ex-staff member who told my boss that I was looking for another job (untrue) and who gossiped about everyone behind their backs;

My SIL who is making my brother and my mother very unhappy;

One of my students who is so arrogant and rude I would like to slap her in the face.
 
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