My friend here at work and I are talking about relationships. She just broke up with a guy that she admits she got involved with because she liked his car, he had a good job and he was helping her work on her house. She is being honest with herself now and realized she was wrong and they weren't made for eachother. In my much younger days, I did that once with a guy, but my only reason I hooked up with him is because I was lonely.......can't say I used him other than it was better than nothing. Have any of you ever experienced anything like that?