What does your spouse or b/f or g/f do that makes you mad

On saturdays I like to sleep in, and I tell him that If he wants me to go out with him early on the weekends, he needs to grab me a change of clothes because im not gonna willingly get up at 10 AM on a saturday (I have insomnia, so when I do sleep it's a blessing-It's not a matter of me not trying to sleep at the appropriate times, it's just aht I usually can't. ) So he tells me I'm lazy because of it! However, I'm not the one that sits on their butt playing Video games all weekend, or that opts instead of cleaning on the weekend, to go out and play games with his pals. all day.. saturday and Sunday.. Every Weekend... -.-

Oh god, I could write a book.
He's a good guy and he tries but, lord, sometimes he makes me so blasted mad that I just have to go elsewhere and read a book or take a walk to keep me from going for the sledgehammer
I love him, though, so what else can you do?

when he's busy with his friends or uni work but then sulks coz i go out with my friends.

he god honestly expects me to sit in a small box with maybe the cats for company until he sees fit to come and see me.

Also when i KNOW he's read my phone meseges but wont admit to it. eg he says "so would you tell me if ur x-bf txt you" 5mins after he has been alone in the room with my phone the only time in 6months the boy has txt me!!

GRRRRRR! i'm far from perfect though and to be fair he puts up with a lot from me. he so caring he gets sympathy pains when i have PMS! lol

Wow. Alot of people have covered alot of the thing that drive me crazy. Runner up would be not doing what he said he would do. Always having a good excuse for not doing it. Makes me feel like a nag when I have to keep reminding him. I don't like feeling like a nagging wife. But the biggest frustration is when he looks at me and says I don't understand what you are talking about. What is the big deal? If I am voicing a concern be supportive not dismissive. If you disagree tell me why so we can conpromise. grrrr... but I do love him and his good outweighs his bad by far.

Tricia

Passes GAS

He uses to many cups! I hate cleaning cups!!

I usually just let them sit on the counter and add up until I feel like doing them.

Snoring, I HATE snoring!!

She's (almost) always right, damn it!

Robert refuses to close things. I'm not talking about the milk carton here. I'm talking about drawers, doors, cupboards, the medicine cabinet. I actually walked into the bathroom at our old place and smack into the medicine cabinet door. It drew blood too!

I hate it when my boyfriend Farts!! >:O

I can't wait to be able to have a discussion about the things that bother me about my girlfriend...

Originally Posted by mikenealis

I can't wait to be able to have a discussion about the things that bother me about my girlfriend...

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So tell us what bothers you about your girilfriend!
I guess the only thing that bothers me about Bradley is that he is a type 1 diabetic but he stays so busy and rarely takes the "down time" that he needs to care of his health. I worry about him so much!

Originally Posted by Oldpeculier

She's (almost) always right, damn it!

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Kev's mom?

I just remembered something else....(partially because he just made me mad!) When I'm helping him do something that he asked me to help with, and he gets mad 'cause I'm not doing it to suit him......then he gets pissed off again when I hand it all to him and tell him to do it the way he wants it done (I'm nice enough not to add what's going thru my mind, which is "see if I try to help you again!")

Originally Posted by Rockcat

Kev's mom?

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No .. his stepmother.....

Originally Posted by Oldpeculier

No .. his stepmother.....

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Welcome, Kev;s dad! Hi Kev's stepmother!

Originally Posted by ugaimes

So tell us what bothers you about your girilfriend!

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I can't - the last one I had was six years ago... Hence wanting to be able to have this (type of) discussion with her...

Join the club. I understand that they are opening a new website for us in the near future. www.lastchanceforlonelylosers.com Membership is limited to those who have flushed at least one major and two (not "to") minor relationships in the past ten years. Other attributes include being self-centered, self-absorbed, and self-ish. Also allows workaholics and some with only limited free time to join. Those that spend more time online than in a relationship are candidates as well. Hmm. sounds like I just wrote down the pet peeves from the former significant others.

Ok, I am not THAT bad but I share your pain. Some say we are in the "sahara desert" during a dry spell. I prefer to think of it as the "Gobi desert" where I can Go Be By Myself.... Maybe TCS should start a dating service. There has GOT to be a market for a pet-friendly dating service! - There - its my idea - if anyone makes a fortune off it, please send me my commission...

Anyone seen my box of tissues? All this whing and crying about my love life has just drenched my face.

Originally Posted by Mark Kumpf

Maybe TCS should start a dating service. There has GOT to be a market for a pet-friendly dating service! - There - its my idea - if anyone makes a fortune off it, please send me my commission...

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awww mark why not post a personal add in the cat lounge? think i might join you:

Spoilt, moody cat and even more spoilt moody owner seek millionaire with own can opener. age/looks/race un-important. must own yacht.

one day my prince will come!

The only thing that I have to complain about my husband is he's ALWAYS late. He says that he is on his way home 3 hours later he shows up. He's worst then a woman when comes to talking with his buddies. His mother had the same trait, so when we have somewhere to go I have to tell it's a bit earlier so we get there on time.

Money. Pretty much everything to do with money.

The biggest problem is that he honest-to-goodness just doesn't grasp the concept. Which is more frustrating than anything, because I can talk until I'm blue in the face and it just doesn't sink in. He doesn't get how it adds up to spend a little bit here and there. He doesn't get that it all goes into the same fund, so when we spend too much on everyday stuff, we have to juggle bills - or vice versa: if I've already paid all the bills, we may have to wait on everyday stuff.

Oh yeah, and there's "his" money and "our" money (meaning what I earn). So I work 40+ hours a week, plus side jobs for web design and graphics, and that's to pay the bills. He does one odd job of web design or computer maintenance, and that's ALL his play money. Unless I fight him for it.

He also has a BAD habit of spending money before we get it...either in fact or in his mind. There's a couple problems...one, he will "borrow" money from checking (bills) or savings to get something he needs RIGHT NOW when he knows that money is coming, and then promptly spends the money when it comes in too so the accounts never get paid back (and then it's my problem to figure out how to pay for everything we need). Or, if he doesn't do that, he will bombard me with "We could spend it on x, y, z, p, d, q, f, j, s" when I'm busy with other stuff. I'll give a non-committal reply, which he will later use as a "But you SAID we could get this!"

He's getting better, though. Honestly, he is. Because most of the time he doesn't realize what he does, so when I point it out to him about a million times he starts to see it.