Hoping you could help us out here.
We had 2 cats, brother and sister, 7 years old. The Male was smart and very friendly, the female (runt of the litter) was very quiet and timid. Not so smart but a great "mothering" cat to her brother. Just before Christmas Judy's brother died rather suddenly of a heart problem. Judy, the sister, seems to never have recovered from the loss. She seems to be eating less but is not getting thinner. She still looks very healthy. Here's the thing... she now meows almost non-stop and it's a real crying meow. She was very quiet before. She will now sit in room all by herself and meow away driving everyone crazy. We call to her to come over and even go to get her but eventually she will just go back to meowing by herself. Here is the question: Should we get another little kitten to "replace" the companionship of her brother right away or do you think it would be better to let her mourn and wait until she stops with the crying before getting someone new? We are just not sure if it would help her to have a little kitten around to take care of or would it just cause her more stress having a new cat in the house while she is still grieving her brother. We didn't want to get a new kitty so soon but now we are thinking of Judy and how to help her.
Any advice you could provide would be very appreciated.
We had 2 cats, brother and sister, 7 years old. The Male was smart and very friendly, the female (runt of the litter) was very quiet and timid. Not so smart but a great "mothering" cat to her brother. Just before Christmas Judy's brother died rather suddenly of a heart problem. Judy, the sister, seems to never have recovered from the loss. She seems to be eating less but is not getting thinner. She still looks very healthy. Here's the thing... she now meows almost non-stop and it's a real crying meow. She was very quiet before. She will now sit in room all by herself and meow away driving everyone crazy. We call to her to come over and even go to get her but eventually she will just go back to meowing by herself. Here is the question: Should we get another little kitten to "replace" the companionship of her brother right away or do you think it would be better to let her mourn and wait until she stops with the crying before getting someone new? We are just not sure if it would help her to have a little kitten around to take care of or would it just cause her more stress having a new cat in the house while she is still grieving her brother. We didn't want to get a new kitty so soon but now we are thinking of Judy and how to help her.
Any advice you could provide would be very appreciated.