Hi everyone, just hoping for some prayers or good vibes/courage today. My husband has his first pre-op visit on his foot surgery (he is doing good) and then after I find out what's going on, I need to call my father about his request to move back out here for me to take care of again . I have done this before and it is a disaster. He and I have never gotten along and without going into gruesom details, I can hardly stand to be around him at all. I will just leave it at he is very abusive, both mentally and physically. He has alienated EVERYONE else in the family, so now is again trying to weasel his way back for me to deal with because NO ONE ELSE wants to have anything to do with him, and I don't either. I have tried to help him in the past and he treated me like dirt. I know he is my father and I try to respect him and honor him as much as I can, but I feel like jumping off the nearest cliff at the thoughts of having him back to terrorize on me yet again. If you can spare any prayers or good thoughts for me, I would really appreciate them as I am going to have to get the guts up to call him back and tell him how I feel and hope that he will stay where he is and leave me alone. Thanks guys.....
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3/3/05 at 8:44am