My friend Brian has a new Girlfriend, and god do i hate her...........
Background...........
Brian has been a friend of our for almost 6 years now. He has had a his share of ups and downs. He was heavy into drugs...(cocaine, extacy, acid, heroin)..really bad stuff. We tried to get him back on track, but our efforts just pushed him a way so we parted ways for a bit, and prayed to god that he got it together. Well about a year ago we got back in touch, and Brian was a changed man. He bacame very spiritual, started eating right, quit the drugs,quit cigs and begain working out 3 times a week...nothing short of a miracle I must say.
We were so happy to get our friend Brian back....But there is a problem, Brian is a hopeless romantic, and he was on the search for the girl of his dreams.
Well a few weeks ago he met her (or at least he thinks so) an 18 year old girl named Ashley. (Brian is almost 23)
Ashley is a mystery, she walks around in designer clothes, spends money like its toilet paper, and walks around with a prada bag, and all she talks about is spending money...Ok heres the real kicker...she lives in the homeless shealter...How freeking bizzare huh????. She walks around like a socialite, and mooches a bed away from some poor person who really needs it. This definitly was the first thing that rubbed me the wrong way...... but i didnt want to judge so quickly, we all have issues, who am I to judge hers
Next she smokes weed like shes in a perpetual woodstock, now dont get me wrong I used to smoke when i was 18 as well, this really isnt the issue...The issue is that shes getting Brian to get it for her, ya know the recovering drug addict...and yes now he is smoking weed too.....and smoking cigs again
Next Brian is really good with money, he always pays his bills on time, well he came over on friday. We play cards on that night everyweek, he showed up 3 hours late then only had 50 cents to his name, then he bumed gas money off of us, which through the grapevine we found out he spent on weed for her, and then complained about how he doesnt have his car insurence money and that its a week late...this is not like him at all........
Next he doesnt come over anymore, and i know thats kinda petty. Were not 16 anymore, we dontneed to hang out everyday, but fridays is our night, but when he comes over he spends most of the time on the phone with her, and when he does come over with her, she just talks about spending money, talks on her cell phone, and then demands brian leaves to bring her some where...
I am so freeking
..but i guess what makes me the most
is that i really cant do anything about it, he is 23 he is a grown boy, i just worry about his safety we all do. She is completly vile, but shes not someone we would ever hang out with, and really looking at this maturly this isnt really her fault shes just 18 (though i might add i was never like that).....but in the end this is a problem with him.......and i am scared for him............
Please please please send prayer and good vibes for him to straighten out...Hes come so far, he found strength where most people cant, I could bare to see that faulter now.......
Thanks
Background...........
Brian has been a friend of our for almost 6 years now. He has had a his share of ups and downs. He was heavy into drugs...(cocaine, extacy, acid, heroin)..really bad stuff. We tried to get him back on track, but our efforts just pushed him a way so we parted ways for a bit, and prayed to god that he got it together. Well about a year ago we got back in touch, and Brian was a changed man. He bacame very spiritual, started eating right, quit the drugs,quit cigs and begain working out 3 times a week...nothing short of a miracle I must say.
We were so happy to get our friend Brian back....But there is a problem, Brian is a hopeless romantic, and he was on the search for the girl of his dreams.
Well a few weeks ago he met her (or at least he thinks so) an 18 year old girl named Ashley. (Brian is almost 23)
Ashley is a mystery, she walks around in designer clothes, spends money like its toilet paper, and walks around with a prada bag, and all she talks about is spending money...Ok heres the real kicker...she lives in the homeless shealter...How freeking bizzare huh????. She walks around like a socialite, and mooches a bed away from some poor person who really needs it. This definitly was the first thing that rubbed me the wrong way...... but i didnt want to judge so quickly, we all have issues, who am I to judge hers
Next she smokes weed like shes in a perpetual woodstock, now dont get me wrong I used to smoke when i was 18 as well, this really isnt the issue...The issue is that shes getting Brian to get it for her, ya know the recovering drug addict...and yes now he is smoking weed too.....and smoking cigs again
Next Brian is really good with money, he always pays his bills on time, well he came over on friday. We play cards on that night everyweek, he showed up 3 hours late then only had 50 cents to his name, then he bumed gas money off of us, which through the grapevine we found out he spent on weed for her, and then complained about how he doesnt have his car insurence money and that its a week late...this is not like him at all........
Next he doesnt come over anymore, and i know thats kinda petty. Were not 16 anymore, we dontneed to hang out everyday, but fridays is our night, but when he comes over he spends most of the time on the phone with her, and when he does come over with her, she just talks about spending money, talks on her cell phone, and then demands brian leaves to bring her some where...
I am so freeking
Please please please send prayer and good vibes for him to straighten out...Hes come so far, he found strength where most people cant, I could bare to see that faulter now.......
Thanks