Last night, I went out with my best friend, Nikki... Her sister-in-law's sister was having a party at her house for the girls and they invited me to go so, I went... When I got there, everything was fine... I had spoken to Nikki earlier when she called me to complain about her boyfriend being a jerk to her... So, when I got to the party we joked about how we both needed a drink and to forget about the guys for one night... There was a tarot card reader at the party doing readings.. So, Nikki went in for her reading and when she came out she was all red in the face... I'm like 'what'd she say?'... So, she proceeded to tell all of us that they lady said she's with a guy right now who's been burned in the past and he's being a jerk but that it will all work out fine... then she told us some of the other things that the lady said... but she went back to the thing about her boyfriend... Our other friend was sitting there and was like "No, it wont, not if I can help it cuz he's a (jerk)" So, I started to laugh and I was like "Oh, what did he do to you"... so the girl told me and I said "well, at least he didnt tell you to go F yourself over a french fry"... So Nikki got mad and was like "well what would you do if someone you just met stuck their fingers in your food???" I'm like "Nik, that wasnt the first time I met him, I'm not a stranger, I'm your best friend and besides you were both sharing the fries... I dont think I deserved to be told to go F myself over a fry!!" she's like " well, I know him better than you and i'm tired of you bashing him to me, he's a good guy.. blah blah blah... and YOU are the last one to talk about guys and how they treat me!" So.. instead of arguing with her any further in front of a room full of girls that I didnt know... I took my purse and left... I told her sister in law to tell her to call me whenever and I left...
Now, here's where I'm really angry about this... She's tired of me bashing him to her but what am I supposed to do when she calls me hysterical crying telling me that he treats her like garbage??? How can you sit there and tell me he's a good guy right now when an hour ago you were telling me that he was fat and ugly and a jerk!? She's mad at me for bashing him to her but yet she can bash Adrian all she wants and say that he's a loser and this and that but meanwhile... Adrian has never treated me with anything less than respect from day one... he's never led me on in any way.. he's never purposefully hurt me... I'm so mad and hurt right now I dont even know what more to say!... I tried calling her last night and she didnt answer me... I called her a little while ago and she's still not answering me and I know she's sitting right by the phone because her phone was Busy in Direct Connect and when I tried again it went through so she just wasnt answering me... Plus, I tried to call her phone and she sent me to voicemail.. so, I'm at a loss right now... I dont understand why she got so angry with me... I love her to death and I never want to hurt her... I just want her to see that this guy is a jerk and he doesnt deserve her... In a way, I know she knows that but she's just blinding herself to it... ugh, I dont know what to say anymore!
I just can't believe she'd let this guy get in between a 12 year friendship....
Now, here's where I'm really angry about this... She's tired of me bashing him to her but what am I supposed to do when she calls me hysterical crying telling me that he treats her like garbage??? How can you sit there and tell me he's a good guy right now when an hour ago you were telling me that he was fat and ugly and a jerk!? She's mad at me for bashing him to her but yet she can bash Adrian all she wants and say that he's a loser and this and that but meanwhile... Adrian has never treated me with anything less than respect from day one... he's never led me on in any way.. he's never purposefully hurt me... I'm so mad and hurt right now I dont even know what more to say!... I tried calling her last night and she didnt answer me... I called her a little while ago and she's still not answering me and I know she's sitting right by the phone because her phone was Busy in Direct Connect and when I tried again it went through so she just wasnt answering me... Plus, I tried to call her phone and she sent me to voicemail.. so, I'm at a loss right now... I dont understand why she got so angry with me... I love her to death and I never want to hurt her... I just want her to see that this guy is a jerk and he doesnt deserve her... In a way, I know she knows that but she's just blinding herself to it... ugh, I dont know what to say anymore!