I'm really frustrated right now and I'm wondering if I'm wrong in this situation... I spoke to my uncle yesterday and I mentioned to him that I wanted to go on vacation with Adrian for a few days just to get away because we're both really stressed and my father was gonna give me $300 to clean the house so I might take that money and bounce for a weekend... So, he mentioned that he was going to Florida next week and if we wanted to come with him, he's be more than happy to let us take his truck for the week while he was in Daytona for Bike Week... Basically, we'd all drive down together, he'd go do his thing while we were in Daytona and we could take the truck and do whatever we wanted then we'd all go to Miami and do our own thing for a few days... It would be cool... we'd share a room but Adrian and I could chill together for the week... So, I called Adrian and was like "Pack your stufff!!"... He's goes "why, what's up?" and I told him about the trip... Details and all... He's like "well, I'll let you know because I might have work and that's the priority right now"... I totally understand that and I told him if he wanted to go, fine.. if not, I wasnt gonna go... I wasnt saying it to guilt him into going but he was like "why not??!" and I explained to him that I really didnt want to go to Florida and spend most of the week alone... it didnt appeal to me... so, he was arguing with me about it for like an hour and I was getting really frustrated because he didnt understand why I wouldnt want to go to Florida alone... I told him that it wasnt just the fact that he couldnt go because I would go with someone else if they could come but I just didnt want to go alone.... He still doesnt get it... that the idea of going to Florida doesnt appeal to me if I'm gonna be there alone... the fun of going on vacation is to have someone with you... but, that's where we differ... He feels that if it was the other way around and I couldnt go with him, he would just go anyway... and I told him "well, that's fine for you but I wont" and he doesnt get it... so I'm wondering if I'm wrong here... Do you guys understand why I wouldnt want to go away alone?? Would you go to away by yourself for a week??
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2/19/05 at 12:04pm