I have a new kitten who doesn't leave my 12 year old Kitty alone, I don't want them to hurt each other, but the older one is just defensive and not offensive towards it at least.
I got Kitou saturday (baby) and he doesn't leave my oldest alone (12 years old) I was surprised that the oldest didn't do more then just sniff and walk away. But the Kitou kept following him around to try to play with Minou.
I don't know how long this will go on but I don't want it to be too long. Minou seems bolder with every encounter. But he doesn't seem like he wants to hurt it.(at least)
Kitou is still too young to be spayed but he will be when he's old enough.
I hope they get along soon and sleep side by side and play.
Also about dividing attention, should I display any to any of them individually when they're together doing their get together thing? I don't want my 12 yr old to get jealous.. many things can get him jealous if he were to discover that I still feed the baby with soft food, while he has the hard food. (Which I hope the baby will get used to soon.)
Any insight or experiences regarding this is appreciated