Originally Posted by fwan
aww my rage you just took my breath away.
I dont know how people can do it though. I would love to have a baby, but i dont know if i have the chance i sometimes have doubts that i have a fertility going on.
Birth control isnt free here in germany.
BUt what i meant before which didnt come out well from being angry.
When they give the child away, because i know so many of them would do it?
What happens to the child?
I find that most couples have to wait for years to get a child when there are so many available? (from adoption centres)
I wouldnt mind adopting one of those children if i could.
I'm not at all familure with Germany. I do know however, that there are lots of clinics all over that do offer free condoms, and child planning here. I was on BC pills, not because of sex (I was inactive at the time), but because they were supposed to break down cysts I had
I was getting them free through a small donation run clinic here in my small town. They gave us lots of talks in our school, and there was a contraversy over if they should give out condoms in school or not.
That 3 day law is put in place, I am assuming, so that kids WILL be put into a safe home. I assume that they end up going into some kind of fostercare system (Wich isn't exactly good), but they are babies, and quickly adopted. (because more people want babies rather then older children) There are lots of families out there that want to adopt a baby, and I assume that would be where the babies would go. I am sure that is a much better altertative then being murdered later in life, after birth, or by an insain mother at 6. There are far to many children out there that are NOT appreciated by their parents. Perhaps some of those children could have been raised in a better household had they been given up after birth to a place like that?
I honestly could not ever imagine being able to give up my own child for adoption. My mom gave her first child up for adoption (her eldest sister raised him) when she was 19. She had a bunch of miscariages (becuse she was negative blood, and her babies were positive). She had me, and I had so many medical problems, she had an abortion when she found out she was PG. I've never forgiven her for that. I understand WHY she did it, she could not have been with me at the hospital for all my surgeries (until I was 2), and raise an infant. She did not want to leave me alone. She wanted to use all her energy on me at that time. I still lost a sibling. I don't understand how she could have done it. I couldn't. I never understood how she could give her son up (it wasn't her choice, her mom forced her into it). I couldn't do it.
I think it's better they end up getting adopted, rather then killed or abused.