Originally Posted by fwan
the mother doesnt deserve my pity as she is a psycho and needs help.
and how the hell dont you know that you are pregnant untill 7 months?
your belly would be so wide and so many changes happen in the body.
Also if you can just dump your kid with in 3 days of birth WTFF????
i dont want to know if these kids are just like.. in a shelter you know
It happens a lot. Some women can still mensturate while pregnant. My mom, while she was PG with my lilbro, never ever showed. After she had him, everyone kept asking who's baby she was babysitting. She always laughed, "He's my
son" She would tell them. People argued with her too. They thought she was joking.
Even people who had seen her just a few weeks before she had him never ever knew she was going to have a baby.
Not all women are built the same. Some women (who are over weight) don't ever show. I knew a chic recently who had twins. She's a big girl, and there was no way to tell she was PG. She only knew because she had a pap done.
She had no clue she was pg. She was only 5 months by that time... I'm not sure how she didn't know. But she didn't.
I think it's a great idea to have that 3 day option open for new mothers. It happens all the time where a woman got PG, and didn't want her kid, so she has an abortion. For those of you who don't believe in abortion, the three days to give up your child with no questions asked is wonderful. Those women can instead, give their baby a chance at a good life, rather then killing the poor thing.
I would personally prefer to see a woman get an abortion, rather then to see her go through 9 months of pregnancy just to give birth, then to kill the baby in some other way. Drowning, Suffacation, starvation, etc. That is not right. I would also rather see an abortion, then to see a child grow up with a family who openly tells that kid they never wanted him/her. Or that beats them, or neglects them because they never wanted him in the first place. People get so mad at me for saying that, but seriously. Some women, and men DON'T use birthcontrol even when it is free, and it so not fair to see the child be abused because of two humans that couldn't take a few seconds to put on a condom, or for the woman to take a pill every day. It is so easy.
Then there are people like me who will never have the chance to feel a baby grow inside. That gift was taken from me by doctors (Not intentionaly) when I was a baby. I spent my younger pre married years using birth control so I wouldn't end up with a child that I wasn't ready, or prepaired for, just to find out when I was ready, and with someone worth while, that I couldn't do it. Makes me ask why I even used BC in the first place... STDs!!!!!!
I don't believe in abortion. I would rather see the need for it to be gone. Unfortunately though, there is a need for it. I am me, I am not anyone else, so for myself I would NEVER EVER do it, and I would try to talk anyone I know out of it. BUT... It is not my place to wish to take the option away from everyone else, because I do not live thier lives, and we have too many rights being threatened as it is.