mine are....fine? well, I love his brothers
My husband and I dated for 6 years before we got married last November. We were engaged for almost 2 years. Its hard for me to really understand his family because they are really nothing like mine (his parents are divorced and both have remarried) and they have had a really hard year. His father's 2nd marriage was really hard on their family for some reason, and just in general a lot of "he/she is not welcome in my house" b/s went on...then as we were engaged his mother was diagnosed and treated for breast cancer and then on the day before our wedding
, his stepfather had a liver transplant. One of the members of his family came up to me at the reception and said "this is nice, but we should all remember where our thoughts and prayers really should be".
anyway, the point is...I feel like they tolerate me...they aren't rude or anything directly
to me but I know they say bad things about me (I have a spy-his little brother loves me
) My husband says that they aren't usually like this and that when all of the tragedy that is around them goes away things will change, but for now they see me as the person that kept their son from being around them when they needed help (which, btw is crap-we were both over there all the time, he just didn't live there anymore which cant really be my fault-he was 25!) Sheesh...I could write a whole threads worth of info on this topic