This is a really long story so, bare with me... Adrian and I met almost a year ago through this girl, Cat, that I used to work with... Cat was interested in Adrian but he wasnt interested in her... She eventually noticed that he was paying more attention to me than to her and she got mad... So, she told me that they were hooking up in order to keep me from getting too close to him... At the time, I wasnt interested in him like that and when he kissed me I told him that I didnt think it should happen again because of his relationship with Cat... Long story short I found out that she had lied to me about what was going on between her and Adrian so, I told all of our friends what she had done... In the meantime, Adrian and I started spending more time together and we were becoming good friends... I introduced him to another girl that I worked with, Amanda, who was like a little sister to me... She was 17 and when I introduced them I warned Adrian to be careful with her because I knew that she had issues and it might not be a good idea for him to get too close to her... He befriended her in order to be nice because he saw that she had a lot of abandonment issues and he thought he could help her... But, as I said, she mistook his attention for flirting and she developed a crush on him... Again, I warned him that she had a crush on him and he should be careful... One day they were hanging out while I was at work and she tried to kiss him... When he stopped her and told her that he didnt think that was a good idea and that he wasnt interested in her like that, she got mad and told me that they made out in order to cause a fight between him and I... Adrian and I discussed the whole situation and he told me exactly what happened and what he said to her... I told her that she messed up and I didnt trust her anymore... She apologized and begged for my forgiveness... After a few days of thinking I told her that I would forgive her because I understood that it was a mistake and I know what it's like to make a mistake and not to be forgiven but I also told her that it would take a while for her to earn the same trust back... She swore she would never let it happen again... In the meantime I started hearing things from people that she said they were hooking up and all this stuff was happening which was clearly impossible because at the time Adrian and I were spending literally 24/7 together and there was no time for them to even hang out because he was always with me... When I told him, he was furious and we came up with a plan to test her... He would hang out with her at his house and tell her to keep it a secret from me... He would never be alone with her, his brothers would be there the whole time so she couldnt say that something went on and we would see if she would tell me the truth... They hung out on a Friday, Adrian was supposed to be leaving for Florida the following Thursday but he found out on Tuesday that the trip was cancelled... That Thursday (the day he was supposed to leave) I got kicked out of my house... So on Friday Adrian and I headed out to NJ because I was moving in with my best friends parents... Amanda called me that day and left me a message saying "I need to talk to you but you're not answering me... I dont know what I did wrong for you to be ignoring me... That just figures... You and Adrian have a nice life... Goodbye..." After I let Adrian hear the message I said "She has some nerve saying that she doesnt know what she did wrong when she's well aware that she's been hiding the fact that she hung out with you.. She just doesnt know that I know..." So we didnt call her back... She called me that Sunday night... When I answered the phone she goes... "I NEED TO TALK TO ADRIAN!!" Now, I had been drinking so I wasnt about to be nice... I said "WHO THE **** ARE YOU TO CALL MY PHONE DEMANDING TO SPEAK TO ADRIAN... UNTIL ADRIAN STARTS PAYING MY PHONE BILL DONT CALL ME LOOKING FOR HIM... IF HE DOESNT CALL YOU, TAKE A HINT!!!!"... "DONT START WITH ME, LIZA, I NEED TO TALK TO HIM!! IT'S BETWEEN ME AND HIM!!"... "THERE'S NOTHING BETWEEN YOU AND HIM... WHEN ARE YOU GONNA REALIZE THAT???"... So, finally I got really annoyed and threw the phone at him and said "TELL YOUR FRIEND NOT TO CALL MY PHONE DEMANDING TO TALK TO YOU!!"... He took the phone and immediately hung up on her, he got up and went upstairs because he was mad that I threw the phone... anyway, long story short, he went to sleep and I went online, still drunk... I wound up getting into an argument with Cat over IM and while I was talking to her I figured out that Cat, Amanda and a couple other people that I used to work with had set us up... They were trying to break up our friendship the whole time... So, I wrote Adrian a letter so I wouldnt forget what happened when I was sober... Anyway, 7am the next morning I get a phone call from Amanda... This was the conversation... "He's a ****ing liar! I wanna know why he's in NJ with you when he told me that he was going to Florida on Thursday!??".... "Amanda, are you his girlfriend?"... "No"... "Are you his wife??"... "No"... "So, then what right do you have to know where he is??? Are you jealous that he's with me and not with you???"... "He's a liar... He's been hooking up with me behind your back... He made me promise not to tell you"... "No, moron! I knew you were hanging out with him... We set you up to see if you would continue to lie to me and you have been... I know that [adrian's brothers] were with you both the whole time so don't even try to tell me that you were hooking up with him... You're the LIAR!!"... meanwhile Adrian had woken up and was listening to the conversation... He grabbed the phone from me... again, he immediately hung it up and told me that he didnt want to talk to her or about her ever again... He wanted me to cut all of them off completely because they were all causing unnecessary drama in our lives and we both have more important problems to worry about... So, that's what I've done... I told her 2 days later to leave us both alone, Adrian didnt want her calling him, I dont want her calling me and to just pretend like she never knew us because she lost the only two people that actually had her best interest in mind... That Cat and the rest of the people at the store (Oh, I forgot to mention that when this first started, she caused so much drama at my job that I had to quit)... that they were all backstabbers and liars and she was becoming just like them... So, I changed my AOL profile and deleted everything that had to do with them, deleted all the pictures of us and stopped writing stuff in my away messages that was aimed at them.... I stopped answering her emails, phone calls, etc... Yet, they continue to harass me... she ims me all the time... Cat still writes stuff about me in her profile... But, I made a promise to myself and Adrian that I would ignore them and wouldnt give them the satisfaction... Okay, now the reason that I even took the time to write all this is because after this morning I seriously needed to vent... I woke up at 5:30am to get a drink and to turn off the DVD player on my computer... I noticed a message from her... and this is what it said...
I've been fighting with myself all day because I'm at a point where I want to strangle this girl until she turns like 80 shades of blue... but I can't... and what I really want to say is FIRST OF ALL!!! You're the dumb ***** because you and Cat are just jealous that I have what you both want!! You have NO life so you sweat our every move and its obvious because you're still checking my away messages!!! Second, I dont measure my friendships based on quantity.. I measure them based on quality!! I'd rather have 2 best friends than 10 backstabbing liars!!! and THIRD, tell Izzy that I want him to deny what happened between the 2 of us in front of me because I'll blow him right out of the water when I list all the things that only a lover would know about him!!! (because they are trying to say that a guy that I was with a while ago is denying that we were together and I know that he probably is but I would love for him to try to deny it in front of me!) So, anyway, of course I told Adrian this morning what happened and he told me to just ignore them, as usual, and then he said "Hey Lyz... Do me a favor... listen to the Jon B. song that I downloaded on your comp..." So, I did... and there's a part in it that goes...
It made me feel a little better but I still wanna kick the life outta this chick!
