Originally Posted by KittyKook
Whenever my kitties refuse cuddling.....I just pick them and hold them tight and kiss them all over their faces and say, "I'm going to love on you whether you like it or not!!" They've all gotten used to that and are all a bunch of big lovers. Except for Abby.....and I think that's because she was already an adult when we found her and I wonder if she got much cuddling at her previous home.
That's what I do... though I'm sure she hates it: whenever I find her alone on the rocking chair and Max cuddling with me, I'll go over to her, pick her up and give her kisses and talk with her for a bit. She puts up with it for a bit and then eventually jumps out of my arms and runs away. But at least I make an effort to give her some separate loving so that she knows she's not being replaced or excluded, right?