For those of you who read my post "How I Became A Cat Person Or...", you read of how my first baby Tiffany was taken to the pound after the break up of my relationship with my girlfriend and, subsequently, how furious I was about it.
Well, Kathy called me last night and it's the first time in a long while that weve talked. She's married w/ a kid now and still in SC, but I think she misses me (She realizes too late how well I treated her). Well, she wants to be friends and if she wants to call and talk occasionally, thats fine. But, here's my delimma...
It's driving me nuts if Tiffany was adopted, and I'm contemplating asking her to go to the pound and check the records, but I'm afraid of the probability that she was Euthanized and I'm thinking that perhaps it's better not to know. If she wasn't adopted, then I will get emotional and angry all over again after all these years. So, what should I do? Should I leave it alone? I'm torn, but I miss my first little girl.
Well, Kathy called me last night and it's the first time in a long while that weve talked. She's married w/ a kid now and still in SC, but I think she misses me (She realizes too late how well I treated her). Well, she wants to be friends and if she wants to call and talk occasionally, thats fine. But, here's my delimma...
It's driving me nuts if Tiffany was adopted, and I'm contemplating asking her to go to the pound and check the records, but I'm afraid of the probability that she was Euthanized and I'm thinking that perhaps it's better not to know. If she wasn't adopted, then I will get emotional and angry all over again after all these years. So, what should I do? Should I leave it alone? I'm torn, but I miss my first little girl.