Hello again!
We have kept our rescue cat Lucky (rescued from industrial site) separated behind a screen (they can see each other clearly) since it became clear that one of our 2 siamese had a hard time accepting him (its been about 4 months now). She has bitten him (or tried to) whenever she gets anywhere near him. He was friendly at first, but now he's just scared of her and shows defensive aggression. We let him play with our other siamese Lila, but he has become aggressive lately towards her and doesn't seem to know his own strength. It seems like he's playing but it is rougher than she is used to. Both girls are petite. She doesn't like to play with him anymore =( but she has been extremely patient and he does listen to her if she makes a fuss (growling and smacking him back when necessary). THen he will lay down as if to say I'm sorry...
He gets out twice a day for approx. 2 to 2 1/2 hours on his own, once in the morning and once at night.
Separating them doesn't seem to be working and we're wondering if we should let them get the dominance hierarchy thing over with, but we are afraid someone will get hurt. If supervised, do you think we should just do that? We've heard from others that it is the only way to get it sorted. Believe me when I say that we've tried everything under the sun to resolve this issue.
Any suggestions? We don't want to rehome him as we're totally in love with him and he is extremely affectionate to us.
Any advice on this topic would be very much appreciated.
Thank you in advance!!!
Lisa
We have kept our rescue cat Lucky (rescued from industrial site) separated behind a screen (they can see each other clearly) since it became clear that one of our 2 siamese had a hard time accepting him (its been about 4 months now). She has bitten him (or tried to) whenever she gets anywhere near him. He was friendly at first, but now he's just scared of her and shows defensive aggression. We let him play with our other siamese Lila, but he has become aggressive lately towards her and doesn't seem to know his own strength. It seems like he's playing but it is rougher than she is used to. Both girls are petite. She doesn't like to play with him anymore =( but she has been extremely patient and he does listen to her if she makes a fuss (growling and smacking him back when necessary). THen he will lay down as if to say I'm sorry...
He gets out twice a day for approx. 2 to 2 1/2 hours on his own, once in the morning and once at night.
Separating them doesn't seem to be working and we're wondering if we should let them get the dominance hierarchy thing over with, but we are afraid someone will get hurt. If supervised, do you think we should just do that? We've heard from others that it is the only way to get it sorted. Believe me when I say that we've tried everything under the sun to resolve this issue.
Any suggestions? We don't want to rehome him as we're totally in love with him and he is extremely affectionate to us.
Any advice on this topic would be very much appreciated.
Thank you in advance!!!
Lisa