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post #1 of 59
Thread Starter 
I found out a friend of ours was found dead this morning. No sign of suicide, no sign of foul play, no sign of a struggle.

HIs ex girlfriend found him dead. He was only 32 years old. He was supposed to go to New Orleans with us. I am so saddened by it all, I cannot believe it. I keep seeing his laugh in my mind as he had this unique expression when he laughed.

I was told that he was already in rigor when he died so he had been dead for quite some time. I want to know what happened.

Rest in Peace Rick.
post #2 of 59
{{{HUGS}}} Kellye, that's got to be tough!
post #3 of 59

That is so sad. What a puzzle, too. My thoughts are with you and his family.
post #4 of 59
wow... I'm so sorry. That has to be a shock.
post #5 of 59
Oh no, that is horrible. I'm so sorry
post #6 of 59
So sorry to hear that you lost your friend.

I recently lost a friend of mine suddenly and didn't find out until after the visitation and the funeral was out of town.

It takes a lot of tears and time to make any sense out of it.
Hope you're OK!
post #7 of 59
Oh Kellye, I am so sorry to hear this.....God bless him.
post #8 of 59
Gosh....how terrible! I'm curious as to what could have happened also. I'm sure they'll probably do an autopsy...which is pretty standard in the case of an unexplained death.

I'm so sorry that you lost your friend. It's always such a shock when we lose someone unexpectedly that way.

Hugs to you.....
post #9 of 59
I'm sorry Kellye
post #10 of 59
Oh no!!!!! Kellye I'm sooooo sorry for the loss of your friend! I'm sending lots and lots of prayers and hugs to you, Jake, your friend's family and all the others who are saddened by his passing!
post #11 of 59
Oh Kellye, I'm so sorry that you lost your friend. Especially since it was so sudden and you don't know what happened to him. You and his family are in my thoughts.
post #12 of 59
I'm so sorry Kellye. It's so hard to accept when it's so unexpected.
post #13 of 59
Kellye, we are so very, very sorry. How unexpected and tragic. Maybe in the days to come you'll have some answers and find some peace within this loss.
post #14 of 59
Thread Starter 
Thanks guys, you are going to get me started again.

We went to visit his house today after we heard - we needed to know what happened so saw his landlord who told us a little bit and then visited the ex girlfriend.

Something is off. She kept talking about the money he owed her and how she was going to get it back. And then we walked past her truck and there was hundreds of dollars in her truck. Why leave that sitting there in the front seat?

I read his final email to the girl he loved. He talked of cutting that ex girlfriend out of his life so that he can heal from past hurts and be with this girl. It was a positive note, he was looking forward to being with her when he was fully healed.

Maybe I am just thinking paranoid thoughts because he was so young and full of life.

Gosh, I am going to miss him. I loved teasing him a lot as he would react in a funny way.
post #15 of 59
I am so sorry, how tragic
post #16 of 59
I am so sorry
While you need to grieve now, it might be a good idea to write down your thoughts, ect, why you feel "something is off", it may never be important but it may at some point, I am hoping it won't be~

I am always here if you would like to talk, just PM me
post #17 of 59
I'm so terribly sorry, please accept my deepest sympathies. I hope you can find out what happened.

post #18 of 59
I am so sorry to hear this, my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.
post #19 of 59
My condolences to you dear Kellye. When someone young dies there are no words in any dictionary to express your grief. Lets hope that was a natural death, and it was sudden and therefore he did not experience any pain.
post #20 of 59
I'm really sorry Kelly thats so sad I hope you are ok
Hear are some hugs I hope they make you feel a bit better

post #21 of 59
How awful! I am so sorry.
post #22 of 59
So sorry to hear that hon,, life throws some vicious curve balls sometimes.
post #23 of 59
So sorry for your loss. I have been through a similiar situation with friends and family members, my heart goes out to you during this rough time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
post #24 of 59
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. I can only try to imagine how shocked you must be. I hope you and all that are effected will find peace soon. You are in my thoughts.
post #25 of 59
I'm sorry for your loss.
post #26 of 59
How odd. Oh, how horrible for you! That's got to be so painful. *hugs and vibes*
post #27 of 59
So sorry to hear about your friend Rick. My condolences to his friends and family. So young to leave this world!
post #28 of 59
Oh, I'm so sorry, Kellye, for the tragic loss of your friend, Rick. This must be so incredibly painful for you. I pray that you will find peace in your heart as you struggle through this time of grief. You know we're right here for you anytime.
post #29 of 59
What an awful shame, Kellye, about Rick! I can't imagine how hard it must be to try & make some sense out of all of this. Hopefully, once the situation is investigated, there'll be answers to the ?'s you & his family are facing. Let us know how this all turns out. We'll be thinking of you, & Rick's family.
post #30 of 59
Kellye thats so sad!, i'm so sorry
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